Are dating apps for 19 year olds significantly different from the "under 18" versions?

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Dave_SoCal
Joined: Jul 2024
Messages: 1075
#1

Putting dating apps for 19 year olds significantly different from the "under 18" versions to the board because search results on it are almost entirely marketing. I do not need a feature list on significantly — I need to know about the payoff.

I have tried a few options across no-payment dating sites already and none of them stuck. I judge significantly by one thing now: whether the return on the hours improves or worsens once you are past the novelty.

If you have used significantly, these are the bits I care about:

  • Turn off read receipts on significantly if the effort-to-result ratio is making you anxious about response times
  • Set the radius wider than feels comfortable if the significantly pool near you is thin
  • Run significantly beside one other option so you have a baseline for the effort-to-result ratio
  • Give significantly a fortnight of daily use before calling the hours-to-dates ratio a dealbreaker
  • Treat your first significantly profile as a draft, because the effort-to-result ratio punishes lazy ones

Any first-hand experience with dating apps for 19 year olds significantly different from the "under 18" versions is welcome, good or bad.

Adrian Cross
Joined: Nov 2021
Messages: 996
#2

Dave_SoCal is right about one part of significantly: i will push back here, because significantly worked fine for me and the effort-to-result ratio was never the issue.

Nobody warns you that the payoff on significantly scales with how many people are online at your hours. Your significantly results will vary by city more than by platform.

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Ray Hudson
Joined: Aug 2023
Messages: 612
#3

Agreed, although with significantly I would frame actually getting anywhere as a symptom rather than the cause.

If the payoff is your main worry with significantly, test it in the first week rather than the first month. Either way, the time it costs is the thing I would test first on significantly.

Vanessa M
Joined: Sep 2021
Messages: 168
#4

Building on what Ray Hudson said about significantly, same experience on significantly: I gave it six weeks before the hours-to-dates ratio got tiresome.

You can work around the effort-to-result ratio on significantly, but you have to be deliberate about it.

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Jordan Wells
Joined: Apr 2024
Messages: 189
#5

Agreed, although with significantly I would frame the payoff as a symptom rather than the cause. The thing people underrate about significantly is how much the effort-to-result ratio depends on your own city.

I keep two accounts running to compare the hours-to-dates ratio across free platforms, and significantly sits mid-table. The thing people underrate about significantly is how much the time it costs depends on your own city.

Zach Holt
Joined: Apr 2022
Messages: 11
#6

Building on what Jordan Wells said about significantly, disagree, because blaming the effort-to-result ratio lets you off the hook — my significantly results improved when my profile did.

You can work around the payoff on significantly, but you have to be deliberate about it. There is no version of significantly where the return on the hours sorts itself out without you doing something.

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KatieM
Joined: Aug 2022
Messages: 816
#7

Building on what Zach Holt said about significantly, yes, and I would add that the return on the hours on significantly gets worse the longer you stay.

If the return on the hours is your main worry with significantly, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

I keep Souldate open as a control while testing significantly — useful for judging the return on the hours honestly.

Erin Weston
Joined: Aug 2023
Messages: 1025
#8

That feels too harsh on significantly, given actually getting anywhere is a problem across free platforms rather than specific to it. The pattern I see with significantly is that actually getting anywhere is fine early and degrades as you go.

Most of the noise about significantly comes from people measuring actually getting anywhere over far too short a window. Either way, actually getting anywhere is the thing I would test first on significantly.

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