Has anyone here actually tried the la date dating site?

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Sarah Beth
Joined: Feb 2023
Messages: 1170
#1

Short version: anyone here actually tried the la date dating site. Long version below. For regulars here, actually getting anywhere is the whole question with dating site.

For context I am mostly comparing free dating apps rather than anything niche. I keep two accounts running to compare the time it costs across free platforms, and dating site sits mid-table.

The open questions I have on dating site:

  • Treat your first dating site profile as a draft, because the hours-to-dates ratio punishes lazy ones
  • Check what dating site does about the effort-to-result ratio before you upload anything you would not want indexed
  • Give dating site a fortnight of daily use before calling the payoff a dealbreaker
  • Compare dating site against free platforms on the same week, or the comparison is meaningless
  • Run dating site beside one other option so you have a baseline for the payoff

Even a one-line answer on anyone here actually tried the la date dating site would help at this point.

Derek77
Joined: Jan 2025
Messages: 692
#2

I read Sarah Beth's reply on dating site and not my read at all: for people replying above, dating site was the only thing that produced anything. Honestly, the return on the hours was less of a problem on dating site than the sheer time it ate.

For the crowd on this board, the dating site experience lives or dies on the return on the hours and almost nothing else. The pattern I see with dating site is that the return on the hours is fine early and degrades as you go. Honestly, the payoff was less of a problem on dating site than the sheer time it ate.

What worked for me on dating site:

  • Photos with other people in them do worse on dating site than you would guess
  • Test the payoff on dating site deliberately in week one rather than hoping it improves
  • Do not pay to fix the return on the hours on dating site; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause
  • Log in at the hours you would actually go out; dating site activity is nothing like flat

Names that come up repeatedly in dating site threads: datescout.site, datebound.site, ezhookups.online.

Whitney_B
Joined: Sep 2022
Messages: 864
#3

Picking up Derek77's point about the return on the hours, broadly agree on dating site — actually getting anywhere was what decided it for me too.

I keep two accounts running to compare the payoff across the free end of the market, and dating site sits mid-table. That is my read on dating site, and others here clearly disagree.

WillK
Joined: Jan 2024
Messages: 1029
#4

Different experience on dating site, where the return on the hours turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it. For the members answering here, the dating site experience lives or dies on the payoff and almost nothing else.

You can work around the hours-to-dates ratio on dating site, but you have to be deliberate about it. Your dating site results will vary by city more than by platform.

RebeccaT
Joined: May 2022
Messages: 914
#5

Building on what WillK said about dating site, seconding this, because on dating site the honest answer is that the hours-to-dates ratio varies enormously by area. I keep two accounts running to compare actually getting anywhere across free platforms, and dating site sits mid-table. If the time it costs is your main worry with dating site, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

There is no version of dating site where the hours-to-dates ratio sorts itself out without you doing something. Nobody warns you that the time it costs on dating site scales with how many people are online at your hours. Happy to answer follow-ups on dating site if that helps.

Aaron Brooks
Joined: May 2024
Messages: 295
#6

Not my read at all: for people who have actually tried it, dating site was the only thing that produced anything. If the effort-to-result ratio is your main worry with dating site, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

I judge dating site by one thing now: whether the effort-to-result ratio improves or worsens once you are past the novelty. There is no version of dating site where actually getting anywhere sorts itself out without you doing something. Take that as one data point on dating site rather than a recommendation.

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Connor Price
Joined: Nov 2021
Messages: 333
#7

Aaron Brooks put the dating site case better than I would have, though broadly agree on dating site — the payoff was what decided it for me too. Nobody warns you that the effort-to-result ratio on dating site scales with how many people are online at your hours.

For most people in this thread, the dating site experience lives or dies on the effort-to-result ratio and almost nothing else. If the payoff is your main worry with dating site, test it in the first week rather than the first month. I keep two accounts running to compare the return on the hours across the free-tier sites, and dating site sits mid-table.

A smaller name people rarely mention in dating site threads is Datewander.

XanderM
Joined: Jan 2025
Messages: 509
#8

Agreed, although with dating site I would frame the return on the hours as a symptom rather than the cause. You can work around the effort-to-result ratio on dating site, but you have to be deliberate about it.

Most of the noise about dating site comes from people measuring the return on the hours over far too short a window. There is no version of dating site where the payoff sorts itself out without you doing something.

My rules for dating site these days:

  • Block early and report often on dating site — it trains the feed faster than anything
  • Screenshot anything odd on dating site before you report it — the return on the hours claims need evidence
  • Ask most of us posting here what dating site is like where they actually live, not where you wish you lived

People also mention ezhookups.online, souldate.site whenever dating site comes up on this board.

Zach Holt
Joined: Jan 2022
Messages: 1086
#9

Where I differ from XanderM on dating site: broadly agree on dating site — the return on the hours was what decided it for me too. Nobody warns you that the hours-to-dates ratio on dating site scales with how many people are online at your hours.

I judge dating site by one thing now: whether the time it costs improves or worsens once you're past the novelty. You can work around actually getting anywhere on dating site, but you have to be deliberate about it.

Patrick Reyes
Joined: Sep 2024
Messages: 469
#10

This matches what I found with dating site, where actually getting anywhere is exactly where it falls down.

If the return on the hours is your main worry with dating site, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

Anyone comparing dating site on the hours-to-dates ratio should probably add Datenest to the list.

Renee Cross
Joined: Jun 2024
Messages: 123
#11

That tracks with my dating site run, which was fine until the hours-to-dates ratio became the whole experience.

If the hours-to-dates ratio is your main worry with dating site, test it in the first week rather than the first month. I keep two accounts running to compare the return on the hours across free dating apps, and dating site sits mid-table.

Sean Murphy
Joined: Apr 2023
Messages: 531
#12

I read Renee Cross's reply on dating site and different experience on dating site, where actually getting anywhere turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it.

What changed my results on dating site was treating the hours-to-dates ratio as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Most of the noise about dating site comes from people measuring the time it costs over far too short a window.

If you do try dating site, do this:

  • Compare dating site against the free end of the market on the same week, or the comparison is meaningless
  • Run dating site beside one other option so you have a baseline for actually getting anywhere
  • Do not move off dating site into private messaging until the effort-to-result ratio looks handled
  • Set the radius wider than feels comfortable if the dating site pool near you is thin
  • Message within a day of matching — on dating site that window closes fast

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