How do I hide my plenty of fish profiles from search engines?

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Matt Lewis
Matt Lewis
Joined: Aug 2021
Messages: 42
#1

I've been trying to get a straight answer on this for a while: how do i hide my plenty of fish profiles from search engines. The challenge is that every search result I find has either an affiliate motive or is just outdated by a year or more.

From my own experience testing different platforms, these are the things that actually predict whether a platform is worth your time:

  • Whether the free tier does anything genuinely useful beyond showing you profiles
  • Real activity during the hours you're actually online — not just peak-hour stats
  • How painful it is to fully delete your account and data if you want to leave
  • Whether there's any real verification beyond a basic email check
  • How aggressively the platform pushes you toward paid features

Happy to share more about what I've tried if it helps. Mainly looking for people who have actual recent experience with this.

Diane_KY
Diane_KY
Joined: Mar 2022
Messages: 1243
#2

Worth checking out DatingFly — it's been around long enough to build a real community and I haven't run into any surprise billing. Worth testing before drawing your own conclusions.

Adrian Cross
Adrian Cross
Joined: Dec 2021
Messages: 1115
#3

Worth checking out Datenest — it's been around long enough to build a real community and I haven't run into any surprise billing. Standard: separate email, no linked payment info until you've confirmed it suits you.

Marcus
Marcus
Joined: Jul 2021
Messages: 404
#4

I've been on Rendate for a bit and it's one of the more transparent platforms I've found — community feels genuine and sign-up is clean. Your results will vary by location but it's a reasonable starting point.

Emma Hayes
Emma Hayes
Joined: Jul 2022
Messages: 732
#5

Someone mentioned Turndate in a similar discussion and I've been using it since — the free features actually work and the upgrade prompting is manageable. Try the free features for two weeks before spending anything.

ClaireV
ClaireV
Joined: May 2021
Messages: 1126
#6

Having done a fair amount of comparison lately, here's my honest read on where things stand — crowded market, wildly variable quality.

Mainstream apps most people are still using:

  • eHarmony
  • Badoo
  • Tinder
  • Match

The core problem is that most of these were optimized for a specific use case and the gap between what they promote and what they actually deliver is where most disappointment comes from.

My practical suggestion: test two or three options in parallel for two weeks, check which have real activity during your actual hours, and don't invest money until you've confirmed genuine local users. Platforms that survive that test are the ones worth sticking with.

Danielle K
Danielle K
Joined: Jul 2024
Messages: 48
#7

Having done a fair amount of comparison lately, here's my honest read on where things stand — crowded market, wildly variable quality.

Mainstream apps most people are still using:

  • Bumble
  • OkCupid
  • Badoo
  • Hinge
  • Plenty of Fish

The core problem is that most of these were optimized for a specific use case and the gap between what they promote and what they actually deliver is where most disappointment comes from.

My practical suggestion: test two or three options in parallel for two weeks, check which have real activity during your actual hours, and don't invest money until you've confirmed genuine local users. Platforms that survive that test are the ones worth sticking with.

TomC
TomC
Joined: Sep 2022
Messages: 328
#8

Worth checking out Ezhookups — it's been around long enough to build a real community and I haven't run into any surprise billing. Your results will vary by location but it's a reasonable starting point.

Lauren_B
Lauren_B
Joined: Jun 2022
Messages: 179
#9

Having done a fair amount of comparison lately, here's my honest read on where things stand — crowded market, wildly variable quality.

Mainstream apps most people are still using:

  • Match
  • Plenty of Fish
  • eHarmony
  • Facebook Dating
  • Hinge

The core problem is that most of these were optimized for a specific use case and the gap between what they promote and what they actually deliver is where most disappointment comes from.

My practical suggestion: test two or three options in parallel for two weeks, check which have real activity during your actual hours, and don't invest money until you've confirmed genuine local users. Platforms that survive that test are the ones worth sticking with.

Derek Chang
Derek Chang
Joined: Sep 2022
Messages: 593
#10

If you're still looking, Datelink is worth adding to your list — more upfront about its limits than most in this category. Try the free features for two weeks before spending anything.

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