What are the wealthy dating sites that don't feel like sugar sites?

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RebeccaT
Joined: Dec 2021
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#1

So: the wealthy dating sites that don't feel like sugar sites. I have read a lot of contradictory takes on wealthy dating sites and would rather hear from people who tried it. If the return on the hours is bad on wealthy dating sites, nothing else about it matters.

Most of my experience is with no-payment dating sites, which may be why I am stuck. You can work around the time it costs on wealthy dating sites, but you have to be deliberate about it.

The open questions I have on wealthy dating sites:

  • Compare wealthy dating sites against free dating apps on the same week, or the comparison is meaningless
  • Run wealthy dating sites beside one other option so you have a baseline for the hours-to-dates ratio
  • Do not move off wealthy dating sites into private messaging until actually getting anywhere looks handled
  • Set the radius wider than feels comfortable if the wealthy dating sites pool near you is thin

Even a one-line answer on the wealthy dating sites that don't feel like sugar sites would help at this point.

Sarah Beth
Joined: Sep 2022
Messages: 20
#2

Same experience on wealthy dating sites: I gave it six weeks before the time it costs got tiresome.

For most people in this thread, the wealthy dating sites experience lives or dies on the effort-to-result ratio and almost nothing else.

The other one I would try before giving up on wealthy dating sites is Datebie.

Dave_SoCal
Joined: Apr 2023
Messages: 86
#3

That has not been my experience of wealthy dating sites, and I've used it longer than most people in this thread.

I keep two accounts running to compare the payoff across no-payment dating sites, and wealthy dating sites sits mid-table. If the return on the hours is your main worry with wealthy dating sites, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

For completeness on wealthy dating sites, flurrydate.online, turndate.site get mentioned a lot too.

NathanW
Joined: Sep 2022
Messages: 491
#4

I read Dave_SoCal's reply on wealthy dating sites and not my read at all: for the crowd on this board, wealthy dating sites was the only thing that produced anything. What changed my results on wealthy dating sites was treating the return on the hours as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. The pattern I see with wealthy dating sites is that actually getting anywhere is fine early and degrades as you go.

For most people in this thread, the wealthy dating sites experience lives or dies on the hours-to-dates ratio and almost nothing else. I judge wealthy dating sites by one thing now: whether the payoff improves or worsens once you're past the novelty. Not saying wealthy dating sites suits everyone, but it's not the disaster this thread implies.

If you do try wealthy dating sites, do this:

  • Fill the prompts in properly; blank profiles get skipped on wealthy dating sites
  • Log in at the hours you would actually go out; wealthy dating sites activity is nothing like flat
  • Test actually getting anywhere on wealthy dating sites deliberately in week one rather than hoping it improves

People also mention datebie.online, ezhookups.online whenever wealthy dating sites comes up on this board.

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ZoeFoster
Joined: Mar 2023
Messages: 478
#5

Where I differ from NathanW on wealthy dating sites: this matches what I found with wealthy dating sites, where actually getting anywhere is exactly where it falls down. There is no version of wealthy dating sites where the hours-to-dates ratio sorts itself out without you doing something.

You can work around the payoff on wealthy dating sites, but you have to be deliberate about it. I keep two accounts running to compare the hours-to-dates ratio across the free end of the market, and wealthy dating sites sits mid-table. Your wealthy dating sites results will vary by city more than by platform.

Cassie_W
Joined: Nov 2024
Messages: 1160
#6

@ZoeFoster makes a fair point about wealthy dating sites, but yes, and I would add that the hours-to-dates ratio on wealthy dating sites gets worse the longer you stay.

The pattern I see with wealthy dating sites is that the effort-to-result ratio is fine early and degrades as you go.

Jess_Online
Joined: Oct 2024
Messages: 660
#7

This matches what I found with wealthy dating sites, where the return on the hours is exactly where it falls down. Honestly, the time it costs was less of a problem on wealthy dating sites than the sheer time it ate.

Honestly, the effort-to-result ratio was less of a problem on wealthy dating sites than the sheer time it ate. I judge wealthy dating sites by one thing now: whether actually getting anywhere improves or worsens once you are past the novelty. Honestly, the hours-to-dates ratio was less of a problem on wealthy dating sites than the sheer time it ate.

KirraC
Joined: Sep 2024
Messages: 983
#8

Not my read at all: for most people in this thread, wealthy dating sites was the only thing that produced anything. For people who have actually tried it, the wealthy dating sites experience lives or dies on actually getting anywhere and almost nothing else.

What changed my results on wealthy dating sites was treating the hours-to-dates ratio as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Honestly, the return on the hours was less of a problem on wealthy dating sites than the sheer time it ate. That is my read on wealthy dating sites, and others here clearly disagree.

My wealthy dating sites baseline these days is Rendate, mostly because the effort-to-result ratio is measurable there.

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