Contact FlameDate

Reporting a profile, a broken page, or a rights issue — here is where each one goes.

General and editorial

Email hello [at] flamedate.online for questions about the site, corrections to a guide, or partnership enquiries. We aim to reply within three working days.

Reporting a member or a post

Use the report control inside the platform where you saw the content. For forum posts on this site, email moderation [at] flamedate.online with the thread URL and the post number.

Privacy and data requests

Access, correction and deletion requests go to privacy [at] flamedate.online. See our privacy policy for what we hold and for how long.

Copyright

If you believe material on this site infringes your copyright, email legal [at] flamedate.online with the URL, a description of the work and a statement of your authority to act. We remove or disable confirmed material promptly.

Corrections to a guide

Our guides carry factual claims about free tiers, paywalls and platform behaviour, and platforms change those without warning. If a guide says a platform is free to message on and it is not, that is a correction rather than an opinion, and we would rather hear it from you than from search results. Send the guide URL and what specifically is now wrong. We date-stamp corrections on the page.

Adding or removing a city page

We maintain city pages for over two thousand locations. If your city is missing, tell us and we will add it. If a city page carries a factual error about local language, time zone or dialling code, that is worth reporting too, since those details are exactly the ones people use to judge whether a page was written by somebody who knows the place.

What we cannot help with

We cannot recover an account on a third-party platform, refund a charge made by one, or intervene in a dispute between you and somebody you met through a linked service. Those go to the platform concerned. We also do not pass messages between members; if you want to reach somebody from the forums, reply in the thread.

Response times

General and editorial enquiries are answered within three working days. Moderation reports are looked at sooner, usually within twenty-four hours. Privacy requests are answered inside the period your local law requires, and copyright notices are actioned on receipt rather than queued.