According to the reddit adult friend finder reviews, it's mostly guys—is this true?

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RebeccaT
Joined: Oct 2022
Messages: 148
#1

Been quietly reading for a while, but adult friend finder reviews, it's mostly guys—is this is the thing I actually need an answer on. What I care about with adult friend finder is the return on the hours more than anything else.

I have about a month of using the sites people keep naming behind me and not much to show for it. If actually getting anywhere is your main worry with adult friend finder, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

The open questions I have on adult friend finder:

  • Check what adult friend finder does about the payoff before you upload anything you would not want indexed
  • Do not move off adult friend finder into private messaging until the return on the hours looks handled
  • Treat your first adult friend finder profile as a draft, because the hours-to-dates ratio punishes lazy ones
  • Run adult friend finder beside one other option so you have a baseline for the return on the hours
  • Turn off read receipts on adult friend finder if the payoff is making you anxious about response times

I will report back on adult friend finder reviews, it's mostly guys—is this once I have tried whatever gets recommended.

Ian Palmer
Joined: Jan 2022
Messages: 724
#2

Respectfully no — complaints about the time it costs on adult friend finder usually come from people who gave it a week. For most people in this thread, the adult friend finder experience lives or dies on actually getting anywhere and almost nothing else. Honestly, the hours-to-dates ratio was less of a problem on adult friend finder than the sheer time it ate.

For most of us posting here, the adult friend finder experience lives or dies on the return on the hours and almost nothing else. Honestly, actually getting anywhere was less of a problem on adult friend finder than the sheer time it ate. Happy to answer follow-ups on adult friend finder if that helps.

Practical bits, if you are trying adult friend finder:

  • Log in at the hours you would actually go out; adult friend finder activity is nothing like flat
  • Ask regulars here what adult friend finder is like where they actually live, not where you wish you lived
  • Fill the prompts in properly; blank profiles get skipped on adult friend finder
  • Screenshot anything odd on adult friend finder before you report it — the time it costs claims need evidence
  • Write a first message that references their profile, not your own — adult friend finder rewards it

One smaller option worth comparing on actually getting anywhere is Datebound — different pool, same free messaging as adult friend finder.

HannahG
Joined: Dec 2022
Messages: 218
#3

Disagree, because blaming the return on the hours lets you off the hook — my adult friend finder results improved when my profile did. The pattern I see with adult friend finder is that the return on the hours is fine early and degrades as you go.

Most of the noise about adult friend finder comes from people measuring the hours-to-dates ratio over far too short a window. The thing people underrate about adult friend finder is how much the effort-to-result ratio depends on your own city.

Names that come up repeatedly in adult friend finder threads: luvdate.site, datingfly.online, turndate.site.

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Danielle K
Joined: May 2022
Messages: 846
#4

That tracks with my adult friend finder run, which was fine until the time it costs became the whole experience. The thing people underrate about adult friend finder is how much the hours-to-dates ratio depends on your own city.

I judge adult friend finder by one thing now: whether the hours-to-dates ratio improves or worsens once you're past the novelty. Your adult friend finder results will vary by city more than by platform.

Anyone comparing adult friend finder on the payoff should probably add Datebie to the list.

Connor Price
Joined: Aug 2022
Messages: 811
#5

Not my read at all: for people replying above, adult friend finder was the only thing that produced anything. The pattern I see with adult friend finder is that the effort-to-result ratio is fine early and degrades as you go.

I keep two accounts running to compare the hours-to-dates ratio across the options here, and adult friend finder sits mid-table. Whatever you pick, judge adult friend finder on actually getting anywhere after a month rather than after a weekend.

Others asking about adult friend finder have named datewander.site, datescout.site.

Whitney_B
Joined: May 2022
Messages: 773
#6

Reading this back, my adult friend finder notes say almost the same thing about actually getting anywhere.

I judge adult friend finder by one thing now: whether the effort-to-result ratio improves or worsens once you're past the novelty.

If you want a second data point on adult friend finder, Datenest is the one I run alongside it.

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