Are free sex meet up websites mostly scams, or have you found real local matches?

Curious where people land on free sex meet up websites mostly scams, or have you found real local matches, because I keep getting told two opposite things. If automated engagement bait is bad on free sex meet, nothing else about it matters.

For context I am mostly comparing live video rooms rather than anything niche. For most people in this thread, the free sex meet experience lives or dies on fake profiles and almost nothing else.

Specifically, on free sex meet I would like to know:

• Do not pay to fix the scam side of it on free sex meet; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause
• Photos with other people in them do worse on free sex meet than you would guess
• Write a first message that references their profile, not your own — free sex meet rewards it

Any first-hand experience with free sex meet up websites mostly scams, or have you found real local matches is welcome, good or bad.

This matches what I found with free sex meet, where scripted messages is exactly where it falls down. The thing people underrate about free sex meet is how much the catfish problem depends on your own city.

Nobody warns you that fake profiles on free sex meet scales with how many people are online at your hours. If profiles that never survive a video call is your main worry with free sex meet, test it in the first week rather than the first month. You can work around the catfish problem on free sex meet, but you have to be deliberate about it.

Not my read at all: for most people in this thread, free sex meet was the only thing that produced anything. Honestly, obviously unreal accounts was less of a problem on free sex meet than the sheer time it ate.

Nobody warns you that bot accounts on free sex meet scales with how many people are online at your hours. There is no version of free sex meet where the catfish problem sorts itself out without you doing something. Either way, obviously unreal accounts is the thing I would test first on free sex meet.

That feels too harsh on free sex meet, given scripted messages is a problem across video chat sites rather than specific to it.

For regulars here, the free sex meet experience lives or dies on bot accounts and almost nothing else. The thing people underrate about free sex meet is how much bot accounts depends on your own city.

Different experience on free sex meet, where profiles that never survive a video call turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it.

What changed my results on free sex meet was treating obviously unreal accounts as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Honestly, fake profiles was less of a problem on free sex meet than the sheer time it ate.

I will push back here, because free sex meet worked fine for me and bot accounts was never the issue. If the catfish problem is your main worry with free sex meet, test it in the first week rather than the first month. I keep two accounts running to compare automated engagement bait across video chat sites, and free sex meet sits mid-table.

The pattern I see with free sex meet is that obviously unreal accounts is fine early and degrades as you go. What changed my results on free sex meet was treating profiles that never survive a video call as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Either way, the scam side of it is the thing I would test first on free sex meet.

Things I wish somebody had told me about free sex meet:

• Treat your first free sex meet profile as a draft, because the catfish problem punishes lazy ones
• Check what free sex meet does about obviously unreal accounts before you upload anything you would not want indexed
• Give free sex meet a fortnight of daily use before calling fake profiles a dealbreaker
• Compare free sex meet against streaming chat platforms on the same week, or the comparison is meaningless

A smaller name people rarely mention in free sex meet threads is Souldate.

@Kyle_B makes a fair point about free sex meet, but yes, and I would add that fake profiles on free sex meet gets worse the longer you stay.

The pattern I see with free sex meet is that scripted messages is fine early and degrades as you go. Either way, the scam side of it's the thing I would test first on free sex meet.

Broadly agree on free sex meet — the catfish problem was what decided it for me too.

The pattern I see with free sex meet is that the scam side of it's fine early and degrades as you go.

A smaller name people rarely mention in free sex meet threads is Datelink.