Are live dating apps with video profiles actually better than photos?

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StaceyR
Joined: Dec 2023
Messages: 584
#1

Every time live dating apps with video profiles actually better than photos comes up the thread turns into an advert, so I am asking here instead. Everything I have read about dating apps for profiles skips straight past actually getting anywhere.

For context I am mostly comparing free dating apps rather than anything niche. If the effort-to-result ratio is your main worry with dating apps for profiles, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

Specifically, on dating apps for profiles I would like to know:

  • Turn off read receipts on dating apps for profiles if actually getting anywhere is making you anxious about response times
  • Set the radius wider than feels comfortable if the dating apps for profiles pool near you is thin
  • Run dating apps for profiles beside one other option so you have a baseline for the time it costs
  • Give dating apps for profiles a fortnight of daily use before calling the effort-to-result ratio a dealbreaker

Any first-hand experience with live dating apps with video profiles actually better than photos is welcome, good or bad.

AlexaM
Joined: Sep 2023
Messages: 1129
#2

Not my read at all: for people who have actually tried it, dating apps for profiles was the only thing that produced anything.

The pattern I see with dating apps for profiles is that the effort-to-result ratio is fine early and degrades as you go. You can work around the return on the hours on dating apps for profiles, but you have to be deliberate about it.

Emma Hayes
Joined: Dec 2021
Messages: 950
#3

Seconding this, because on dating apps for profiles the honest answer is that the effort-to-result ratio varies enormously by area.

What changed my results on dating apps for profiles was treating the hours-to-dates ratio as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Happy to answer follow-ups on dating apps for profiles if that helps.

Somebody in another dating apps for profiles thread pointed me at Souldate and it held up better than expected on the return on the hours.

Brent Olson
Joined: Oct 2021
Messages: 462
#4

Where I differ from Emma Hayes on dating apps for profiles: different experience on dating apps for profiles, where the payoff turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it.

There is no version of dating apps for profiles where the effort-to-result ratio sorts itself out without you doing something. Take that as one data point on dating apps for profiles rather than a recommendation.

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Haley Frost
Joined: Aug 2021
Messages: 144
#5

Reading this back, my dating apps for profiles notes say almost the same thing about the effort-to-result ratio. For most of us posting here, the dating apps for profiles experience lives or dies on the payoff and almost nothing else. I judge dating apps for profiles by one thing now: whether the effort-to-result ratio improves or worsens once you are past the novelty.

The thing people underrate about dating apps for profiles is how much the hours-to-dates ratio depends on your own city. What changed my results on dating apps for profiles was treating the time it costs as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. What changed my results on dating apps for profiles was treating actually getting anywhere as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Either way, the time it costs is the thing I would test first on dating apps for profiles.

The short version for dating apps for profiles:

  • Block early and report often on dating apps for profiles — it trains the feed faster than anything
  • Screenshot anything odd on dating apps for profiles before you report it — actually getting anywhere claims need evidence
  • Ask most of us posting here what dating apps for profiles is like where they actually live, not where you wish you lived
  • Do not pay to fix actually getting anywhere on dating apps for profiles; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause
  • Photos with other people in them do worse on dating apps for profiles than you would guess
Lauren_B
Joined: Jun 2021
Messages: 836
#6

That tracks with my dating apps for profiles run, which was fine until the time it costs became the whole experience. What changed my results on dating apps for profiles was treating the payoff as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

The pattern I see with dating apps for profiles is that the hours-to-dates ratio is fine early and degrades as you go. The pattern I see with dating apps for profiles is that actually getting anywhere is fine early and degrades as you go. I keep two accounts running to compare the effort-to-result ratio across free platforms, and dating apps for profiles sits mid-table.

Jared Stone
Joined: Sep 2022
Messages: 899
#7

@Lauren_B makes a fair point about dating apps for profiles, but respectfully no — complaints about the effort-to-result ratio on dating apps for profiles usually come from people who gave it a week. The pattern I see with dating apps for profiles is that the return on the hours is fine early and degrades as you go.

For people who have actually tried it, the dating apps for profiles experience lives or dies on the effort-to-result ratio and almost nothing else. That is my read on dating apps for profiles, and others here clearly disagree.

People also mention datebound.site, rendate.site, souldate.site whenever dating apps for profiles comes up on this board.

TracyB
Joined: Jun 2024
Messages: 589
#8

Respectfully no — complaints about actually getting anywhere on dating apps for profiles usually come from people who gave it a week. If the return on the hours is your main worry with dating apps for profiles, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

There is no version of dating apps for profiles where the payoff sorts itself out without you doing something. Nobody warns you that actually getting anywhere on dating apps for profiles scales with how many people are online at your hours. You can work around the hours-to-dates ratio on dating apps for profiles, but you have to be deliberate about it.

One smaller option worth comparing on the payoff is Ezhookups — different pool, same free messaging as dating apps for profiles.

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