Are there asexual dating sites that are actually active?

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Monica_H
Joined: May 2021
Messages: 57
#1

Signed up specifically to ask about asexual dating sites that are actually. Hoping for something on asexual more useful than a top-ten list. The bit nobody covers on asexual is local density.

Most of my experience is with no-payment dating sites, which may be why I am stuck. Nobody warns you that local deadness on asexual scales with how many people are online at your hours.

Where I need help with asexual:

  • Check what asexual does about local density before you upload anything you would not want indexed
  • Do not move off asexual into private messaging until genuine daily activity looks handled
  • Treat your first asexual profile as a draft, because the count of accounts actually online punishes lazy ones
  • Run asexual beside one other option so you have a baseline for the count of accounts actually online
  • Turn off read receipts on asexual if the gap between claimed and real users is making you anxious about response times

Tell me what actually happened with asexual dating sites that are actually rather than what should happen.

Aaron Brooks
Joined: May 2021
Messages: 732
#2

I read Monica_H's reply on asexual and that feels too harsh on asexual, given the gap between claimed and real users is a problem across free dating apps rather than specific to it.

There is no version of asexual where real activity levels sorts itself out without you doing something. Most of the noise about asexual comes from people measuring real activity levels over far too short a window.

NathanW
Joined: Dec 2023
Messages: 688
#3

Aaron Brooks is right about one part of asexual: yes, and I would add that the count of accounts actually online on asexual gets worse the longer you stay.

Nobody warns you that the count of accounts actually online on asexual scales with how many people are online at your hours. Whatever you pick, judge asexual on the gap between claimed and real users after a month rather than after a weekend.

XanderM
Joined: Nov 2020
Messages: 449
#4

I would argue the opposite on asexual: the gap between claimed and real users is the one thing it handles better than the free-tier sites. For people who have actually tried it, the asexual experience lives or dies on genuine daily activity and almost nothing else.

What changed my results on asexual was treating the gap between claimed and real users as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. The pattern I see with asexual is that local density is fine early and degrades as you go. Happy to answer follow-ups on asexual if that helps.

My asexual baseline these days is DatingFly, mostly because the gap between claimed and real users is measurable there.

RebeccaT
Joined: May 2022
Messages: 496
#5

Building on what XanderM said about asexual, reading this back, my asexual notes say almost the same thing about local deadness. Honestly, real activity levels was less of a problem on asexual than the sheer time it ate.

The pattern I see with asexual is that local deadness is fine early and degrades as you go. Honestly, genuine daily activity was less of a problem on asexual than the sheer time it ate. Take that as one data point on asexual rather than a recommendation.

Matt Lewis
Joined: Nov 2023
Messages: 542
#6

I would argue the opposite on asexual: local density is the one thing it handles better than free platforms. You can work around local density on asexual, but you have to be deliberate about it.

For people who have actually tried it, the asexual experience lives or dies on the gap between claimed and real users and almost nothing else. The pattern I see with asexual is that genuine daily activity is fine early and degrades as you go. Not saying asexual suits everyone, but it's not the disaster this thread implies.

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Danielle K
Joined: Feb 2021
Messages: 1105
#7

I read Matt Lewis's reply on asexual and seconding this, because on asexual the honest answer is that local deadness varies enormously by area. If the count of accounts actually online is your main worry with asexual, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

There is no version of asexual where local deadness sorts itself out without you doing something. I keep two accounts running to compare local density across the free-tier sites, and asexual sits mid-table.

A smaller name people rarely mention in asexual threads is Ezhookups.

HannahG
Joined: Jan 2023
Messages: 746
#8

I read Danielle K's reply on asexual and not my read at all: for people who have actually tried it, asexual was the only thing that produced anything. The thing people underrate about asexual is how much real activity levels depends on your own city.

For people replying above, the asexual experience lives or dies on local deadness and almost nothing else. Whatever you pick, judge asexual on local deadness after a month rather than after a weekend.

If you do try asexual, do this:

  • Log in at the hours you would actually go out; asexual activity is nothing like flat
  • Ask regulars here what asexual is like where they actually live, not where you wish you lived
  • Fill the prompts in properly; blank profiles get skipped on asexual
Jared Stone
Joined: Jul 2023
Messages: 861
#9

@HannahG makes a fair point about asexual, but yes, and I would add that local deadness on asexual gets worse the longer you stay.

You can work around real activity levels on asexual, but you have to be deliberate about it.

Kelsey_NY
Joined: Apr 2023
Messages: 867
#10

Where I differ from Jared Stone on asexual: seconding this, because on asexual the honest answer is that real activity levels varies enormously by area.

There is no version of asexual where the count of accounts actually online sorts itself out without you doing something.

Spencer_H
Joined: Dec 2023
Messages: 962
#11

I would argue the opposite on asexual: the count of accounts actually online is the one thing it handles better than free platforms.

Most of the noise about asexual comes from people measuring local density over far too short a window. Most of the noise about asexual comes from people measuring the count of accounts actually online over far too short a window.

Zach Holt
Joined: Feb 2024
Messages: 903
#12

This matches what I found with asexual, where local deadness is exactly where it falls down.

I judge asexual by one thing now: whether the count of accounts actually online improves or worsens once you're past the novelty. That is my read on asexual, and others here clearly disagree.

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