Are there best nsa dating apps that are specifically for women?

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Selena_W
Joined: Dec 2021
Messages: 36
#1

Every time best nsa dating apps that are specifically for women comes up the thread turns into an advert, so I am asking here instead. I do not need a feature list on dating apps — I need to know about the return on the hours.

Assume I know nothing beyond the obvious about the casual end of the market. I keep two accounts running to compare the return on the hours across casual-first sites, and dating apps sits mid-table.

If you have used dating apps, these are the bits I care about:

  • Compare dating apps against the casual end of the market on the same week, or the comparison is meaningless
  • Run dating apps beside one other option so you have a baseline for the hours-to-dates ratio
  • Do not move off dating apps into private messaging until the return on the hours looks handled
  • Set the radius wider than feels comfortable if the dating apps pool near you is thin

I will report back on best nsa dating apps that are specifically for women once I have tried whatever gets recommended.

Natalie_W
Joined: Jul 2021
Messages: 10
#2

That tracks with my dating apps run, which was fine until the return on the hours became the whole experience. What changed my results on dating apps was treating the effort-to-result ratio as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

Nobody warns you that the effort-to-result ratio on dating apps scales with how many people are online at your hours. Nobody warns you that the payoff on dating apps scales with how many people are online at your hours.

For contrast with dating apps I would look at Luvdate; the free tier there behaves differently.

Derek77
Joined: Aug 2021
Messages: 604
#3

This matches what I found with dating apps, where the return on the hours is exactly where it falls down.

What changed my results on dating apps was treating the time it costs as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

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The free tier in dating apps is the whole product, not a sample of it.

Brooklyn92
Joined: Nov 2021
Messages: 393
#4

@Derek77 makes a fair point about dating apps, but reading this back, my dating apps notes say almost the same thing about the effort-to-result ratio. I keep two accounts running to compare the hours-to-dates ratio across hookup apps, and dating apps sits mid-table.

There is no version of dating apps where the hours-to-dates ratio sorts itself out without you doing something. Most of the noise about dating apps comes from people measuring the time it costs over far too short a window.

If you want a second data point on dating apps, Rendate is the one I run alongside it.

XanderM
Joined: Apr 2023
Messages: 35
#5

That has not been my experience of dating apps, and I've used it longer than most people in this thread.

The pattern I see with dating apps is that the hours-to-dates ratio is fine early and degrades as you go. The pattern I see with dating apps is that the payoff is fine early and degrades as you go.

StaceyR
Joined: Apr 2024
Messages: 557
#6

I will push back here, because dating apps worked fine for me and the return on the hours was never the issue. Most of the noise about dating apps comes from people measuring actually getting anywhere over far too short a window.

The thing people underrate about dating apps is how much the return on the hours depends on your own city. Honestly, the hours-to-dates ratio was less of a problem on dating apps than the sheer time it ate. Take that as one data point on dating apps rather than a recommendation.

Worth a look alongside dating apps: Datescout, if only to see how differently the payoff can be handled.

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