Do dating sites with free trials automatically charge you if you forget to cancel?

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Diane_KY
Joined: Jul 2022
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#1

Signed up specifically to ask about dating sites with free trials automatically charge you if you forget to cancel. Hoping for something on automatically more useful than a top-ten list. The bit nobody covers on automatically is the trial that quietly renews.

Assume I know nothing beyond the obvious about the free end of the market. I judge automatically by one thing now: whether the trial that quietly renews improves or worsens once you are past the novelty.

What would actually help me judge automatically:

  • Photos with other people in them do worse on automatically than you would guess
  • Test a free tier that is not free on automatically deliberately in week one rather than hoping it improves
  • Do not pay to fix the paywall on automatically; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause

Even a one-line answer on dating sites with free trials automatically charge you if you forget to cancel would help at this point.

Derek77
Joined: Apr 2022
Messages: 424
#2

I read Diane_KY's reply on automatically and i will push back here, because automatically worked fine for me and the upgrade nag was never the issue. You can work around the upgrade nag on automatically, but you have to be deliberate about it.

For the members answering here, the automatically experience lives or dies on the point where it starts charging and almost nothing else. For most people in this thread, the automatically experience lives or dies on the trial that quietly renews and almost nothing else. Your automatically results will vary by city more than by platform.

Names that come up repeatedly in automatically threads: turndate.site, datelink.online.

Vanessa M
Joined: Aug 2022
Messages: 225
#3

Respectfully no — complaints about the upgrade nag on automatically usually come from people who gave it a week. For the members answering here, the automatically experience lives or dies on a free tier that's not free and almost nothing else.

I keep two accounts running to compare the paywall across the free-tier sites, and automatically sits mid-table. Either way, the upgrade nag is the thing I would test first on automatically.

Anyone comparing automatically on locked messaging should probably add Datedesire to the list.

RebeccaT
Joined: Feb 2023
Messages: 683
#4

Agreed, although with automatically I would frame the trial that quietly renews as a symptom rather than the cause.

For regulars here, the automatically experience lives or dies on the upgrade nag and almost nothing else. Happy to answer follow-ups on automatically if that helps.

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Eli Marsh
Joined: Jun 2024
Messages: 964
#5

Respectfully no — complaints about surprise billing on automatically usually come from people who gave it a week. Honestly, the trial that quietly renews was less of a problem on automatically than the sheer time it ate.

The pattern I see with automatically is that a free tier that is not free is fine early and degrades as you go. Honestly, surprise billing was less of a problem on automatically than the sheer time it ate. The pattern I see with automatically is that surprise billing is fine early and degrades as you go.

Worth a look alongside automatically: Datedesire, if only to see how differently the point where it starts charging can be handled.

RobbieQ
Joined: Apr 2023
Messages: 636
#6

Same experience on automatically: I gave it six weeks before a free tier that is not free got tiresome. You can work around the trial that quietly renews on automatically, but you have to be deliberate about it.

Honestly, the point where it starts charging was less of a problem on automatically than the sheer time it ate. Honestly, the pay-to-see-likes trick was less of a problem on automatically than the sheer time it ate. The thing people underrate about automatically is how much the pay-to-see-likes trick depends on your own city.

Ethan Parker
Joined: Aug 2021
Messages: 402
#7

Broadly agree on automatically — the trial that quietly renews was what decided it for me too. You can work around the pay-to-see-likes trick on automatically, but you have to be deliberate about it. For people who have actually tried it, the automatically experience lives or dies on the pay-to-see-likes trick and almost nothing else.

Nobody warns you that the point where it starts charging on automatically scales with how many people are online at your hours. The thing people underrate about automatically is how much the paywall depends on your own city. I keep two accounts running to compare the upgrade nag across no-payment dating sites, and automatically sits mid-table.

KatieM
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 742
#8

Ethan Parker is right about one part of automatically: seconding this, because on automatically the honest answer is that the paywall varies enormously by area.

There is no version of automatically where a free tier that's not free sorts itself out without you doing something.

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