Has anyone heard of bbwtodate?

Putting anyone heard of bbwtodate to the board because search results on it are almost entirely marketing. What I care about with bbwtodate is the return on the hours more than anything else.

I have tried a few options across the sites people keep naming already and none of them stuck. The thing people underrate about bbwtodate is how much the hours-to-dates ratio depends on your own city.

Specifically, on bbwtodate I would like to know:

• Check what bbwtodate does about the time it costs before you upload anything you would not want indexed
• Do not move off bbwtodate into private messaging until actually getting anywhere looks handled
• Treat your first bbwtodate profile as a draft, because the effort-to-result ratio punishes lazy ones
• Run bbwtodate beside one other option so you have a baseline for the effort-to-result ratio

Anyone with a recent anyone heard of bbwtodate story, please jump in.

Same experience on bbwtodate: I gave it six weeks before the hours-to-dates ratio got tiresome. I keep two accounts running to compare the return on the hours across what is on offer, and bbwtodate sits mid-table. The pattern I see with bbwtodate is that the time it costs is fine early and degrades as you go. I keep two accounts running to compare the payoff across platforms in this space, and bbwtodate sits mid-table.

I judge bbwtodate by one thing now: whether the time it costs improves or worsens once you are past the novelty. The thing people underrate about bbwtodate is how much the return on the hours depends on your own city. The thing people underrate about bbwtodate is how much actually getting anywhere depends on your own city. Happy to answer follow-ups on bbwtodate if that helps.

I keep Datelink open as a control while testing bbwtodate — useful for judging the payoff honestly.

Not my read at all: for plus-size members, bbwtodate was the only thing that produced anything.

For plus-size daters here, the bbwtodate experience lives or dies on the return on the hours and almost nothing else.

Yes, and I would add that the time it costs on bbwtodate gets worse the longer you stay.

Nobody warns you that actually getting anywhere on bbwtodate scales with how many people are online at your hours. For plus-size daters here, the bbwtodate experience lives or dies on the payoff and almost nothing else.

I will push back here, because bbwtodate worked fine for me and the effort-to-result ratio was never the issue. What changed my results on bbwtodate was treating the payoff as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Most of the noise about bbwtodate comes from people measuring actually getting anywhere over far too short a window.

The thing people underrate about bbwtodate is how much the effort-to-result ratio depends on your own city. If the hours-to-dates ratio is your main worry with bbwtodate, test it in the first week rather than the first month. Most of the noise about bbwtodate comes from people measuring the effort-to-result ratio over far too short a window. Take that as one data point on bbwtodate rather than a recommendation.

Respectfully no — complaints about actually getting anywhere on bbwtodate usually come from people who gave it a week. The thing people underrate about bbwtodate is how much the time it costs depends on your own city.

Nobody warns you that the time it costs on bbwtodate scales with how many people are online at your hours. Not saying bbwtodate suits everyone, but it is not the disaster this thread implies.

I have seen datedesire.online, flurrydate.online recommended for bbwtodate, though I have not tested them properly.

Not my read at all: for members who want to be seen properly, bbwtodate was the only thing that produced anything. Nobody warns you that the effort-to-result ratio on bbwtodate scales with how many people are online at your hours.

Most of the noise about bbwtodate comes from people measuring the time it costs over far too short a window. The pattern I see with bbwtodate is that the payoff is fine early and degrades as you go.

The other one I would try before giving up on bbwtodate is Datebound.

Agreed, although with bbwtodate I would frame the effort-to-result ratio as a symptom rather than the cause. There is no version of bbwtodate where the payoff sorts itself out without you doing something.

Honestly, the time it costs was less of a problem on bbwtodate than the sheer time it ate. Either way, the hours-to-dates ratio is the thing I would test first on bbwtodate.

How I would approach bbwtodate from scratch:

• Write a first message that references their profile, not your own — bbwtodate rewards it
• Do not pay to fix the hours-to-dates ratio on bbwtodate; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause
• Screenshot anything odd on bbwtodate before you report it — actually getting anywhere claims need evidence

For completeness on bbwtodate, datelink.online, datenest.site get mentioned a lot too.