Has anyone tried adultxxxdate?

Short version: anyone tried adultxxxdate. Long version below. Everything I have read about adultxxxdate skips straight past actually getting anywhere.

I have about a month of using what is on offer behind me and not much to show for it. The thing people underrate about adultxxxdate is how much the payoff depends on your own city.

Specifically, on adultxxxdate I would like to know:

• Ask people who have actually tried it what adultxxxdate is like where they actually live, not where you wish you lived
• Block early and report often on adultxxxdate — it trains the feed faster than anything
• Log in at the hours you would actually go out; adultxxxdate activity is nothing like flat

Anyone with a recent anyone tried adultxxxdate story, please jump in.

This matches what I found with adultxxxdate, where the payoff is exactly where it falls down.

Honestly, the hours-to-dates ratio was less of a problem on adultxxxdate than the sheer time it ate. Not saying adultxxxdate suits everyone, but it's not the disaster this thread implies.

Kayla Mitchell put the adultxxxdate case better than I would have, though that has not been my experience of adultxxxdate, and I've used it longer than most people in this thread. The pattern I see with adultxxxdate is that the hours-to-dates ratio is fine early and degrades as you go.

Most of the noise about adultxxxdate comes from people measuring the hours-to-dates ratio over far too short a window. Nobody warns you that the time it costs on adultxxxdate scales with how many people are online at your hours. For people replying above, the adultxxxdate experience lives or dies on the return on the hours and almost nothing else.

Yes, and I would add that actually getting anywhere on adultxxxdate gets worse the longer you stay. Nobody warns you that the return on the hours on adultxxxdate scales with how many people are online at your hours. I judge adultxxxdate by one thing now: whether the effort-to-result ratio improves or worsens once you are past the novelty.

Most of the noise about adultxxxdate comes from people measuring the effort-to-result ratio over far too short a window. I judge adultxxxdate by one thing now: whether the hours-to-dates ratio improves or worsens once you're past the novelty. If the return on the hours is your main worry with adultxxxdate, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

Different experience on adultxxxdate, where actually getting anywhere turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it. If the time it costs is your main worry with adultxxxdate, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

If actually getting anywhere is your main worry with adultxxxdate, test it in the first week rather than the first month. I judge adultxxxdate by one thing now: whether the payoff improves or worsens once you're past the novelty. Take that as one data point on adultxxxdate rather than a recommendation.

Reading this back, my adultxxxdate notes say almost the same thing about the return on the hours. I keep two accounts running to compare actually getting anywhere across the sites people keep naming, and adultxxxdate sits mid-table. The thing people underrate about adultxxxdate is how much the effort-to-result ratio depends on your own city.

Nobody warns you that the payoff on adultxxxdate scales with how many people are online at your hours. For the crowd on this board, the adultxxxdate experience lives or dies on the return on the hours and almost nothing else. I judge adultxxxdate by one thing now: whether the time it costs improves or worsens once you are past the novelty. Whatever you pick, judge adultxxxdate on the payoff after a month rather than after a weekend.

My adultxxxdate baseline these days is Rendate, mostly because the payoff is measurable there.

Where I differ from Elijah Murphy on adultxxxdate: broadly agree on adultxxxdate — the hours-to-dates ratio was what decided it for me too. I keep two accounts running to compare the return on the hours across the sites people keep naming, and adultxxxdate sits mid-table.

Most of the noise about adultxxxdate comes from people measuring the return on the hours over far too short a window. You can work around actually getting anywhere on adultxxxdate, but you have to be deliberate about it. Either way, the return on the hours is the thing I would test first on adultxxxdate.

I will push back here, because adultxxxdate worked fine for me and the payoff was never the issue. Honestly, the payoff was less of a problem on adultxxxdate than the sheer time it ate.

I judge adultxxxdate by one thing now: whether the return on the hours improves or worsens once you are past the novelty. I keep two accounts running to compare the return on the hours across platforms in this space, and adultxxxdate sits mid-table. Honestly, the effort-to-result ratio was less of a problem on adultxxxdate than the sheer time it ate.

The other one I would try before giving up on adultxxxdate is Souldate.

That has not been my experience of adultxxxdate, and I have used it longer than most people in this thread.

For regulars here, the adultxxxdate experience lives or dies on the effort-to-result ratio and almost nothing else. For people who have actually tried it, the adultxxxdate experience lives or dies on the time it costs and almost nothing else.