How do you successfully meet singles for free online without getting scammed?

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Sam_B
Joined: Feb 2023
Messages: 347
#1

Curious where people land on successfully meet singles for free online without getting scammed, because I keep getting told two opposite things. What I care about with scammed is the catfish problem more than anything else.

Assume I know nothing beyond the obvious about streaming chat platforms. The pattern I see with scammed is that bot accounts is fine early and degrades as you go.

If you have used scammed, these are the bits I care about:

  • Run scammed beside one other option so you have a baseline for fake profiles
  • Turn off read receipts on scammed if scripted messages is making you anxious about response times
  • Compare scammed against cam platforms on the same week, or the comparison is meaningless

Blunt answers on successfully meet singles for free online without getting scammed preferred over polite ones.

Amanda P
Joined: Sep 2021
Messages: 1013
#2

Building on what Sam_B said about scammed, different experience on scammed, where the scam side of it turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it.

Nobody warns you that bot accounts on scammed scales with how many people are online at your hours. Your scammed results will vary by city more than by platform.

My scammed baseline these days is Luvdate, mostly because obviously unreal accounts is measurable there.

Derek Chang
Joined: Sep 2020
Messages: 1007
#3

@Amanda P makes a fair point about scammed, but yes, and I would add that automated engagement bait on scammed gets worse the longer you stay. You can work around bot accounts on scammed, but you have to be deliberate about it.

Honestly, profiles that never survive a video call was less of a problem on scammed than the sheer time it ate. Honestly, scripted messages was less of a problem on scammed than the sheer time it ate. I keep two accounts running to compare the catfish problem across the cam side of things, and scammed sits mid-table.

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DawnP
Joined: Jan 2021
Messages: 673
#4

That tracks with my scammed run, which was fine until bot accounts became the whole experience.

For people who have actually tried it, the scammed experience lives or dies on scripted messages and almost nothing else. Either way, profiles that never survive a video call is the thing I would test first on scammed.

A smaller name people rarely mention in scammed threads is Datebie.

Cole Fisher
Joined: Mar 2021
Messages: 831
#5

Picking up DawnP's point about the scam side of it, respectfully no — complaints about fake profiles on scammed usually come from people who gave it a week. I judge scammed by one thing now: whether automated engagement bait improves or worsens once you are past the novelty.

You can work around fake profiles on scammed, but you have to be deliberate about it. The thing people underrate about scammed is how much automated engagement bait depends on your own city. What changed my results on scammed was treating bot accounts as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

RebeccaT
Joined: Jun 2022
Messages: 222
#6

Different experience on scammed, where profiles that never survive a video call turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it.

Most of the noise about scammed comes from people measuring the scam side of it over far too short a window.

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