Is adult friend finder reddit a good place for reviews?

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Kinsley Hughes
Joined: Jul 2020
Messages: 792
#1

Been quietly reading for a while, but adult friend finder reddit a good place for reviews is the thing I actually need an answer on. The bit nobody covers on adult friend finder is the return on the hours.

I have tried a few options across platforms in this space already and none of them stuck. Honestly, actually getting anywhere was less of a problem on adult friend finder than the sheer time it ate.

Specifically, on adult friend finder I would like to know:

  • Write a first message that references their profile, not your own — adult friend finder rewards it
  • Do not pay to fix the time it costs on adult friend finder; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause
  • Screenshot anything odd on adult friend finder before you report it — actually getting anywhere claims need evidence

Even a one-line answer on adult friend finder reddit a good place for reviews would help at this point.

Mila93
Joined: May 2020
Messages: 342
#2

@Kinsley Hughes makes a fair point about adult friend finder, but i will push back here, because adult friend finder worked fine for me and actually getting anywhere was never the issue. Most of the noise about adult friend finder comes from people measuring the time it costs over far too short a window.

The pattern I see with adult friend finder is that actually getting anywhere is fine early and degrades as you go. Most of the noise about adult friend finder comes from people measuring the effort-to-result ratio over far too short a window.

Somebody in another adult friend finder thread pointed me at Turndate and it held up better than expected on the payoff.

Mia52
Joined: Apr 2024
Messages: 459
#3

I would argue the opposite on adult friend finder: the hours-to-dates ratio is the one thing it handles better than what is on offer. The pattern I see with adult friend finder is that the effort-to-result ratio is fine early and degrades as you go.

Honestly, the effort-to-result ratio was less of a problem on adult friend finder than the sheer time it ate. For regulars here, the adult friend finder experience lives or dies on actually getting anywhere and almost nothing else. Not saying adult friend finder suits everyone, but it is not the disaster this thread implies.

gavin.chat
Joined: Sep 2021
Messages: 199
#4

Same experience on adult friend finder: I gave it six weeks before the hours-to-dates ratio got tiresome. The thing people underrate about adult friend finder is how much the time it costs depends on your own city.

If the hours-to-dates ratio is your main worry with adult friend finder, test it in the first week rather than the first month. Most of the noise about adult friend finder comes from people measuring actually getting anywhere over far too short a window. Either way, the hours-to-dates ratio is the thing I would test first on adult friend finder.

Adam Hayes
Joined: Mar 2024
Messages: 227
#5

Reading this back, my adult friend finder notes say almost the same thing about the payoff.

Honestly, the time it costs was less of a problem on adult friend finder than the sheer time it ate. That is my read on adult friend finder, and others here clearly disagree.

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Daniel Griffin
Joined: Aug 2022
Messages: 766
#6

Broadly agree on adult friend finder — the payoff was what decided it for me too. Nobody warns you that the payoff on adult friend finder scales with how many people are online at your hours.

For the members answering here, the adult friend finder experience lives or dies on the effort-to-result ratio and almost nothing else. Happy to answer follow-ups on adult friend finder if that helps.

Practical bits, if you are trying adult friend finder:

  • Check what adult friend finder does about the hours-to-dates ratio before you upload anything you would not want indexed
  • Do not move off adult friend finder into private messaging until the return on the hours looks handled
  • Treat your first adult friend finder profile as a draft, because the hours-to-dates ratio punishes lazy ones
  • Run adult friend finder beside one other option so you have a baseline for the hours-to-dates ratio
  • Turn off read receipts on adult friend finder if actually getting anywhere is making you anxious about response times
Jade Porter
Joined: Apr 2021
Messages: 717
#7

@Daniel Griffin makes a fair point about adult friend finder, but seconding this, because on adult friend finder the honest answer is that actually getting anywhere varies enormously by area.

Nobody warns you that the time it costs on adult friend finder scales with how many people are online at your hours. Your adult friend finder results will vary by city more than by platform.

Elizabeth Dean
Joined: Sep 2023
Messages: 539
#8

I will push back here, because adult friend finder worked fine for me and the return on the hours was never the issue. Most of the noise about adult friend finder comes from people measuring the hours-to-dates ratio over far too short a window.

I judge adult friend finder by one thing now: whether the hours-to-dates ratio improves or worsens once you are past the novelty. You can work around actually getting anywhere on adult friend finder, but you have to be deliberate about it.

Samuel Russell
Joined: May 2023
Messages: 697
#9

Where I differ from Elizabeth Dean on adult friend finder: not my read at all: for the members answering here, adult friend finder was the only thing that produced anything.

What changed my results on adult friend finder was treating the return on the hours as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

Nora Price
Joined: May 2024
Messages: 617
#10

Same experience on adult friend finder: I gave it six weeks before the payoff got tiresome.

There is no version of adult friend finder where the effort-to-result ratio sorts itself out without you doing something.

If you want a second data point on adult friend finder, Flurrydate is the one I run alongside it.

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