Is the okc dating app still good for deep personality matching?

Every time the okc dating app still good for deep personality matching comes up the thread turns into an advert, so I am asking here instead. My problem with personality so far has been compatibility scoring.

Most of my experience is with the apps everyone has heard of, which may be why I am stuck. Nobody warns you that match relevance on personality scales with how many people are online at your hours.

Where I need help with personality:

• Set the radius wider than feels comfortable if the personality pool near you is thin
• Message within a day of matching — on personality that window closes fast
• Turn off read receipts on personality if the algorithm is making you anxious about response times

Anyone with a recent the okc dating app still good for deep personality matching story, please jump in.

That feels too harsh on personality, given match relevance is a problem across the apps everyone has heard of rather than specific to it. If match relevance is your main worry with personality, test it in the first week rather than the first month. The pattern I see with personality is that suggestion relevance is fine early and degrades as you go.

Honestly, match relevance was less of a problem on personality than the sheer time it ate. Most of the noise about personality comes from people measuring who it actually surfaces over far too short a window. Happy to answer follow-ups on personality if that helps.

Different experience on personality, where suggestion relevance turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it.

Most of the noise about personality comes from people measuring match relevance over far too short a window. I keep two accounts running to compare match relevance across the apps everyone has heard of, and personality sits mid-table.

Things I wish somebody had told me about personality:

• Write a first message that references their profile, not your own — personality rewards it
• Do not pay to fix compatibility scoring on personality; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause
• Screenshot anything odd on personality before you report it — match relevance claims need evidence
• Test who it actually surfaces on personality deliberately in week one rather than hoping it improves

Anyone comparing personality on match quality should probably add Datebound to the list.

Disagree, because blaming compatibility scoring lets you off the hook — my personality results improved when my profile did.

Most of the noise about personality comes from people measuring suggestion relevance over far too short a window.

I would argue the opposite on personality: suggestion relevance is the one thing it handles better than the large players.

Honestly, who it actually surfaces was less of a problem on personality than the sheer time it ate.

Worth a look alongside personality: Datebound, if only to see how differently who it actually surfaces can be handled.

That has not been my experience of personality, and I have used it longer than most people in this thread. For regulars here, the personality experience lives or dies on suggestion relevance and almost nothing else.

You can work around match quality on personality, but you have to be deliberate about it. I keep two accounts running to compare suggestion relevance across the large players, and personality sits mid-table. If compatibility scoring is your main worry with personality, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

The short version for personality:

• Check what personality does about match relevance before you upload anything you would not want indexed
• Do not move off personality into private messaging until compatibility scoring looks handled
• Treat your first personality profile as a draft, because suggestion relevance punishes lazy ones
• Run personality beside one other option so you have a baseline for match quality
• Turn off read receipts on personality if compatibility scoring is making you anxious about response times