Is there a bi dating app that doesn't just treat you like a fetish?

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LiamJ
Joined: May 2024
Messages: 630
#1

Signed up specifically to ask about a bi dating app that doesn't just treat you like a fetish. Hoping for something on dating app for doesn more useful than a top-ten list. For people who need the filters to actually work, the effort-to-result ratio is the whole question with dating app for doesn.

I have about a month of using free platforms behind me and not much to show for it. Honestly, the return on the hours was less of a problem on dating app for doesn than the sheer time it ate.

The open questions I have on dating app for doesn:

  • Write a first message that references their profile, not your own — dating app for doesn rewards it
  • Do not pay to fix actually getting anywhere on dating app for doesn; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause
  • Screenshot anything odd on dating app for doesn before you report it — the hours-to-dates ratio claims need evidence
  • Test actually getting anywhere on dating app for doesn deliberately in week one rather than hoping it improves

Anyone with a recent a bi dating app that doesn't just treat you like a fetish story, please jump in.

Aaron Brooks
Joined: Feb 2023
Messages: 22
#2

Picking up LiamJ's point about the effort-to-result ratio, disagree, because blaming the time it costs lets you off the hook — my dating app for doesn results improved when my profile did. What changed my results on dating app for doesn was treating actually getting anywhere as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Nobody warns you that the effort-to-result ratio on dating app for doesn scales with how many people are online at your hours.

The pattern I see with dating app for doesn is that the time it costs is fine early and degrades as you go. I keep two accounts running to compare the effort-to-result ratio across free dating apps, and dating app for doesn sits mid-table. Your dating app for doesn results will vary by city more than by platform.

The short version for dating app for doesn:

  • Check what dating app for doesn does about the time it costs before you upload anything you would not want indexed
  • Do not move off dating app for doesn into private messaging until the payoff looks handled
  • Treat your first dating app for doesn profile as a draft, because the return on the hours punishes lazy ones
  • Run dating app for doesn beside one other option so you have a baseline for the hours-to-dates ratio
  • Turn off read receipts on dating app for doesn if the payoff is making you anxious about response times
Mia Thornton
Joined: Mar 2022
Messages: 160
#3

Not my read at all: for queer daters, dating app for doesn was the only thing that produced anything. You can work around the effort-to-result ratio on dating app for doesn, but you have to be deliberate about it.

Most of the noise about dating app for doesn comes from people measuring the hours-to-dates ratio over far too short a window. Whatever you pick, judge dating app for doesn on the effort-to-result ratio after a month rather than after a weekend.

Brent Olson
Joined: Aug 2022
Messages: 461
#4

Same experience on dating app for doesn: I gave it six weeks before the time it costs got tiresome. Most of the noise about dating app for doesn comes from people measuring the effort-to-result ratio over far too short a window.

What changed my results on dating app for doesn was treating the return on the hours as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. I judge dating app for doesn by one thing now: whether the hours-to-dates ratio improves or worsens once you're past the novelty.

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Derek Chang
Joined: Feb 2023
Messages: 596
#5

Different experience on dating app for doesn, where the return on the hours turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it. If the hours-to-dates ratio is your main worry with dating app for doesn, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

You can work around the hours-to-dates ratio on dating app for doesn, but you have to be deliberate about it. I judge dating app for doesn by one thing now: whether the time it costs improves or worsens once you are past the novelty. Happy to answer follow-ups on dating app for doesn if that helps.

Derek77
Joined: Aug 2021
Messages: 127
#6

@Derek Chang makes a fair point about dating app for doesn, but seconding this, because on dating app for doesn the honest answer is that the return on the hours varies enormously by area.

What changed my results on dating app for doesn was treating the effort-to-result ratio as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. If the payoff is your main worry with dating app for doesn, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

My dating app for doesn baseline these days is Rendate, mostly because the return on the hours is measurable there.

NinaB
Joined: Jan 2022
Messages: 421
#7

Broadly agree on dating app for doesn — actually getting anywhere was what decided it for me too. The thing people underrate about dating app for doesn is how much the effort-to-result ratio depends on your own city.

I judge dating app for doesn by one thing now: whether the payoff improves or worsens once you're past the novelty. I judge dating app for doesn by one thing now: whether the effort-to-result ratio improves or worsens once you're past the novelty. Whatever you pick, judge dating app for doesn on actually getting anywhere after a month rather than after a weekend.

Jenny_K
Joined: Jul 2024
Messages: 505
#8

Building on what NinaB said about dating app for doesn, this matches what I found with dating app for doesn, where the time it costs is exactly where it falls down.

What changed my results on dating app for doesn was treating the payoff as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

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