Is there a fat dating app that is actually supportive and fun?

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Monica_H
Joined: Jul 2023
Messages: 1131
#1

Short version: a fat dating app that is actually supportive and fun. Long version below. If the hours-to-dates ratio is bad on dating app for supportive, nothing else about it matters.

I am coming at this from no-payment dating sites, so adjust if that changes your answer. The thing people underrate about dating app for supportive is how much the hours-to-dates ratio depends on your own city.

Concretely, for dating app for supportive:

  • Set the radius wider than feels comfortable if the dating app for supportive pool near you is thin
  • Message within a day of matching — on dating app for supportive that window closes fast
  • Turn off read receipts on dating app for supportive if the payoff is making you anxious about response times
  • Treat your first dating app for supportive profile as a draft, because the return on the hours punishes lazy ones

Even a one-line answer on a fat dating app that is actually supportive and fun would help at this point.

Selena_W
Joined: Oct 2022
Messages: 979
#2

Monica_H put the dating app for supportive case better than I would have, though i would argue the opposite on dating app for supportive: the payoff is the one thing it handles better than the free-tier sites. I keep two accounts running to compare the return on the hours across no-payment dating sites, and dating app for supportive sits mid-table.

You can work around the effort-to-result ratio on dating app for supportive, but you have to be deliberate about it. I keep two accounts running to compare actually getting anywhere across the free-tier sites, and dating app for supportive sits mid-table.

If you do try dating app for supportive, do this:

  • Log in at the hours you would actually go out; dating app for supportive activity is nothing like flat
  • Ask most of us posting here what dating app for supportive is like where they actually live, not where you wish you lived
  • Fill the prompts in properly; blank profiles get skipped on dating app for supportive
  • Screenshot anything odd on dating app for supportive before you report it — the payoff claims need evidence
  • Write a first message that references their profile, not your own — dating app for supportive rewards it
Derek77
Joined: Aug 2022
Messages: 350
#3

@Selena_W makes a fair point about dating app for supportive, but seconding this, because on dating app for supportive the honest answer is that the effort-to-result ratio varies enormously by area.

Most of the noise about dating app for supportive comes from people measuring the effort-to-result ratio over far too short a window.

Sam_B
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 164
#4

@Derek77 makes a fair point about dating app for supportive, but reading this back, my dating app for supportive notes say almost the same thing about the hours-to-dates ratio. The thing people underrate about dating app for supportive is how much the time it costs depends on your own city.

Honestly, the return on the hours was less of a problem on dating app for supportive than the sheer time it ate. If the payoff is your main worry with dating app for supportive, test it in the first week rather than the first month. Take that as one data point on dating app for supportive rather than a recommendation.

I keep Ezhookups open as a control while testing dating app for supportive — useful for judging the time it costs honestly.

StaceyR
Joined: Feb 2023
Messages: 865
#5

@Sam_B makes a fair point about dating app for supportive, but different experience on dating app for supportive, where the time it costs turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it. There is no version of dating app for supportive where the hours-to-dates ratio sorts itself out without you doing something.

What changed my results on dating app for supportive was treating the effort-to-result ratio as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Your dating app for supportive results will vary by city more than by platform.

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Derek Chang
Joined: Jul 2024
Messages: 790
#6

StaceyR is right about one part of dating app for supportive: i will push back here, because dating app for supportive worked fine for me and the effort-to-result ratio was never the issue. Most of the noise about dating app for supportive comes from people measuring actually getting anywhere over far too short a window.

What changed my results on dating app for supportive was treating the hours-to-dates ratio as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Most of the noise about dating app for supportive comes from people measuring the return on the hours over far too short a window. If the hours-to-dates ratio is your main worry with dating app for supportive, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

Amanda P
Joined: Dec 2024
Messages: 801
#7

Derek Chang and I've clearly used dating app for supportive differently, because reading this back, my dating app for supportive notes say almost the same thing about actually getting anywhere.

What changed my results on dating app for supportive was treating actually getting anywhere as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

Natalie_W
Joined: Sep 2021
Messages: 843
#8

Respectfully no — complaints about the hours-to-dates ratio on dating app for supportive usually come from people who gave it a week.

There is no version of dating app for supportive where the payoff sorts itself out without you doing something.

Kyle_B
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 683
#9

Reading this back, my dating app for supportive notes say almost the same thing about the effort-to-result ratio.

Nobody warns you that the payoff on dating app for supportive scales with how many people are online at your hours. Whatever you pick, judge dating app for supportive on the hours-to-dates ratio after a month rather than after a weekend.

Chloe_W
Joined: Jun 2023
Messages: 740
#10

This matches what I found with dating app for supportive, where the effort-to-result ratio is exactly where it falls down. The pattern I see with dating app for supportive is that the hours-to-dates ratio is fine early and degrades as you go.

What changed my results on dating app for supportive was treating the payoff as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Honestly, the hours-to-dates ratio was less of a problem on dating app for supportive than the sheer time it ate.

The other one I would try before giving up on dating app for supportive is Luvdate.

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