What are the best fwb sites for people who want to keep things casual?

Putting the best fwb sites for people who want to keep things casual to the board because search results on it are almost entirely marketing. actually getting anywhere is what makes or breaks fwb sites keep for me.

I have about a month of using hookup apps behind me and not much to show for it. Honestly, the return on the hours was less of a problem on fwb sites keep than the sheer time it ate.

Where I need help with fwb sites keep:

• Log in at the hours you would actually go out; fwb sites keep activity is nothing like flat
• Ask the crowd on this board what fwb sites keep is like where they actually live, not where you wish you lived
• Fill the prompts in properly; blank profiles get skipped on fwb sites keep
• Screenshot anything odd on fwb sites keep before you report it — the payoff claims need evidence
• Write a first message that references their profile, not your own — fwb sites keep rewards it

Even a one-line answer on the best fwb sites for people who want to keep things casual would help at this point.

Disagree, because blaming the return on the hours lets you off the hook — my fwb sites keep results improved when my profile did.

For the members answering here, the fwb sites keep experience lives or dies on the time it costs and almost nothing else. I judge fwb sites keep by one thing now: whether the effort-to-result ratio improves or worsens once you're past the novelty.

Somebody in another fwb sites keep thread pointed me at Rendate and it held up better than expected on the effort-to-result ratio.

That has not been my experience of fwb sites keep, and I've used it longer than most people in this thread. The pattern I see with fwb sites keep is that the payoff is fine early and degrades as you go.

If the effort-to-result ratio is your main worry with fwb sites keep, test it in the first week rather than the first month. Take that as one data point on fwb sites keep rather than a recommendation.

Yes, and I would add that the payoff on fwb sites keep gets worse the longer you stay.

Nobody warns you that actually getting anywhere on fwb sites keep scales with how many people are online at your hours.

For completeness on fwb sites keep, flurrydate.online, turndate.site get mentioned a lot too.

Yes, and I would add that the time it costs on fwb sites keep gets worse the longer you stay.

There is no version of fwb sites keep where the payoff sorts itself out without you doing something. Your fwb sites keep results will vary by city more than by platform.

The usual fwb sites keep alternatives people list are flurrydate.online, turndate.site.

Broadly agree on fwb sites keep — the effort-to-result ratio was what decided it for me too.

You can work around the time it costs on fwb sites keep, but you have to be deliberate about it.

Agreed, although with fwb sites keep I would frame the hours-to-dates ratio as a symptom rather than the cause.

There is no version of fwb sites keep where the hours-to-dates ratio sorts itself out without you doing something. The thing people underrate about fwb sites keep is how much the hours-to-dates ratio depends on your own city.

One smaller option worth comparing on the effort-to-result ratio is Datescout — different pool, same free messaging as fwb sites keep.

Broadly agree on fwb sites keep — the return on the hours was what decided it for me too.

You can work around the hours-to-dates ratio on fwb sites keep, but you have to be deliberate about it.