What are the biggest dating sites in terms of total registered users?

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Troy Vance
Joined: Jul 2022
Messages: 737
#1

I want to be wrong about the biggest dating sites in terms of total registered users, so tell me if I am. My problem with dating sites for terms so far has been real activity levels.

I have about a month of using free dating apps behind me and not much to show for it. The thing people underrate about dating sites for terms is how much the gap between claimed and real users depends on your own city.

The open questions I have on dating sites for terms:

  • Message within a day of matching — on dating sites for terms that window closes fast
  • Give dating sites for terms a fortnight of daily use before calling genuine daily activity a dealbreaker
  • Set the radius wider than feels comfortable if the dating sites for terms pool near you is thin
  • Check what dating sites for terms does about local density before you upload anything you would not want indexed
  • Do not move off dating sites for terms into private messaging until local deadness looks handled

Blunt answers on the biggest dating sites in terms of total registered users preferred over polite ones.

Sean Murphy
Joined: Oct 2022
Messages: 58
#2

I read Troy Vance's reply on dating sites for terms and agreed, although with dating sites for terms I would frame real activity levels as a symptom rather than the cause. You can work around the gap between claimed and real users on dating sites for terms, but you have to be deliberate about it.

The pattern I see with dating sites for terms is that the gap between claimed and real users is fine early and degrades as you go. Most of the noise about dating sites for terms comes from people measuring genuine daily activity over far too short a window.

Anyone comparing dating sites for terms on local deadness should probably add Datedesire to the list.

WillK
Joined: Jun 2023
Messages: 982
#3

Sean Murphy put the dating sites for terms case better than I would have, though that has not been my experience of dating sites for terms, and I have used it longer than most people in this thread.

I judge dating sites for terms by one thing now: whether local density improves or worsens once you are past the novelty. I judge dating sites for terms by one thing now: whether local deadness improves or worsens once you are past the novelty.

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Mia Thornton
Joined: Dec 2022
Messages: 588
#4

Respectfully no — complaints about local deadness on dating sites for terms usually come from people who gave it a week. For most people in this thread, the dating sites for terms experience lives or dies on real activity levels and almost nothing else.

Honestly, real activity levels was less of a problem on dating sites for terms than the sheer time it ate. If the count of accounts actually online is your main worry with dating sites for terms, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

I have seen datebie.online, ezhookups.online, datescout.site recommended for dating sites for terms, though I have not tested them properly.

Vanessa M
Joined: Sep 2023
Messages: 799
#5

This matches what I found with dating sites for terms, where local density is exactly where it falls down.

What changed my results on dating sites for terms was treating local density as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

Somebody in another dating sites for terms thread pointed me at DatingFly and it held up better than expected on the count of accounts actually online.

Jared Stone
Joined: Sep 2024
Messages: 1077
#6

I read Vanessa M's reply on dating sites for terms and that tracks with my dating sites for terms run, which was fine until genuine daily activity became the whole experience.

You can work around real activity levels on dating sites for terms, but you have to be deliberate about it. What changed my results on dating sites for terms was treating the count of accounts actually online as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

For completeness on dating sites for terms, datebound.site, rendate.site get mentioned a lot too.

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