What are the biggest turn-offs for older women seeking younger guys?

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BradleyM
Joined: Jun 2023
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#1

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I have about a month of using the options here behind me and not much to show for it. What changed my results on biggest turn-offs older was treating real activity levels as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

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WillK
Joined: May 2022
Messages: 51
#2

This matches what I found with biggest turn-offs older, where real activity levels is exactly where it falls down.

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Kevin Nash
Joined: May 2023
Messages: 318
#3

Agreed, although with biggest turn-offs older I would frame real activity levels as a symptom rather than the cause. For people dating in retirement, the biggest turn-offs older experience lives or dies on local deadness and almost nothing else.

You can work around the gap between claimed and real users on biggest turn-offs older, but you have to be deliberate about it. I keep two accounts running to compare the gap between claimed and real users across what is on offer, and biggest turn-offs older sits mid-table.

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Erin Weston
Joined: Nov 2022
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#4

Where I differ from Kevin Nash on biggest turn-offs older: broadly agree on biggest turn-offs older — genuine daily activity was what decided it for me too. I keep two accounts running to compare real activity levels across the options here, and biggest turn-offs older sits mid-table.

What changed my results on biggest turn-offs older was treating genuine daily activity as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. I keep two accounts running to compare local deadness across what is on offer, and biggest turn-offs older sits mid-table.

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KatieM
Joined: Aug 2024
Messages: 565
#5

I would argue the opposite on biggest turn-offs older: the gap between claimed and real users is the one thing it handles better than platforms in this space. I judge biggest turn-offs older by one thing now: whether genuine daily activity improves or worsens once you are past the novelty.

There is no version of biggest turn-offs older where the gap between claimed and real users sorts itself out without you doing something. For people dating in retirement, the biggest turn-offs older experience lives or dies on genuine daily activity and almost nothing else. That is my read on biggest turn-offs older, and others here clearly disagree.

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ZoeFoster
Joined: Nov 2023
Messages: 661
#6

KatieM and I've clearly used biggest turn-offs older differently, because i will push back here, because biggest turn-offs older worked fine for me and real activity levels was never the issue.

What changed my results on biggest turn-offs older was treating local density as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Honestly, local deadness was less of a problem on biggest turn-offs older than the sheer time it ate.

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