What are the dating sites for lesbians that don't have fake male profiles?

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Spencer_H
Joined: Apr 2024
Messages: 903
#1

Asking because the dating sites for lesbians that don't have fake male profiles keeps coming up and I still cannot get a straight answer. My problem with dating sites for lesbians so far has been fake profiles.

I am coming at this from free dating apps, so adjust if that changes your answer. The thing people underrate about dating sites for lesbians is how much obviously unreal accounts depends on your own city.

Specifically, on dating sites for lesbians I would like to know:

  • Fill the prompts in properly; blank profiles get skipped on dating sites for lesbians
  • Log in at the hours you would actually go out; dating sites for lesbians activity is nothing like flat
  • Test bot accounts on dating sites for lesbians deliberately in week one rather than hoping it improves
  • Block early and report often on dating sites for lesbians — it trains the feed faster than anything
  • Screenshot anything odd on dating sites for lesbians before you report it — fake profiles claims need evidence

Any first-hand experience with the dating sites for lesbians that don't have fake male profiles is welcome, good or bad.

Jenny_K
Joined: Oct 2022
Messages: 545
#2

That feels too harsh on dating sites for lesbians, given automated engagement bait is a problem across free platforms rather than specific to it. What changed my results on dating sites for lesbians was treating the scam side of it as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

You can work around the catfish problem on dating sites for lesbians, but you have to be deliberate about it. The pattern I see with dating sites for lesbians is that the scam side of it is fine early and degrades as you go. For LGBTQ+ users in this thread, the dating sites for lesbians experience lives or dies on fake profiles and almost nothing else.

Brooklyn92
Joined: Dec 2022
Messages: 446
#3

Jenny_K is right about one part of dating sites for lesbians: i will push back here, because dating sites for lesbians worked fine for me and automated engagement bait was never the issue. Most of the noise about dating sites for lesbians comes from people measuring obviously unreal accounts over far too short a window.

I keep two accounts running to compare scripted messages across free dating apps, and dating sites for lesbians sits mid-table. The pattern I see with dating sites for lesbians is that profiles that never survive a video call is fine early and degrades as you go. Not saying dating sites for lesbians suits everyone, but it's not the disaster this thread implies.

I keep Datedesire open as a control while testing dating sites for lesbians — useful for judging automated engagement bait honestly.

Patrick Reyes
Joined: Dec 2021
Messages: 235
#4

Not my read at all: for queer daters, dating sites for lesbians was the only thing that produced anything. For LGBTQ+ users in this thread, the dating sites for lesbians experience lives or dies on the scam side of it and almost nothing else.

Most of the noise about dating sites for lesbians comes from people measuring automated engagement bait over far too short a window. If automated engagement bait is your main worry with dating sites for lesbians, test it in the first week rather than the first month. I judge dating sites for lesbians by one thing now: whether automated engagement bait improves or worsens once you are past the novelty.

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Kevin Nash
Joined: Oct 2021
Messages: 829
#5

That feels too harsh on dating sites for lesbians, given bot accounts is a problem across free dating apps rather than specific to it. I judge dating sites for lesbians by one thing now: whether automated engagement bait improves or worsens once you're past the novelty. The pattern I see with dating sites for lesbians is that automated engagement bait is fine early and degrades as you go.

I judge dating sites for lesbians by one thing now: whether bot accounts improves or worsens once you're past the novelty. Most of the noise about dating sites for lesbians comes from people measuring profiles that never survive a video call over far too short a window. I keep two accounts running to compare automated engagement bait across the free end of the market, and dating sites for lesbians sits mid-table. That is my read on dating sites for lesbians, and others here clearly disagree.

Three things that changed my dating sites for lesbians results:

  • Check what dating sites for lesbians does about profiles that never survive a video call before you upload anything you would not want indexed
  • Do not move off dating sites for lesbians into private messaging until scripted messages looks handled
  • Treat your first dating sites for lesbians profile as a draft, because fake profiles punishes lazy ones
Danielle K
Joined: Aug 2022
Messages: 99
#6

I would argue the opposite on dating sites for lesbians: the catfish problem is the one thing it handles better than the free-tier sites. For people outside the straight default, the dating sites for lesbians experience lives or dies on scripted messages and almost nothing else.

The thing people underrate about dating sites for lesbians is how much scripted messages depends on your own city. There is no version of dating sites for lesbians where bot accounts sorts itself out without you doing something. Happy to answer follow-ups on dating sites for lesbians if that helps.

ZoeFoster
Joined: Jan 2025
Messages: 395
#7

This matches what I found with dating sites for lesbians, where bot accounts is exactly where it falls down. The thing people underrate about dating sites for lesbians is how much profiles that never survive a video call depends on your own city.

If fake profiles is your main worry with dating sites for lesbians, test it in the first week rather than the first month. The pattern I see with dating sites for lesbians is that fake profiles is fine early and degrades as you go. Not saying dating sites for lesbians suits everyone, but it is not the disaster this thread implies.

Somebody in another dating sites for lesbians thread pointed me at Souldate and it held up better than expected on obviously unreal accounts.

Nicole_TX
Joined: Sep 2022
Messages: 205
#8

That has not been my experience of dating sites for lesbians, and I've used it longer than most people in this thread. You can work around scripted messages on dating sites for lesbians, but you have to be deliberate about it.

There is no version of dating sites for lesbians where the scam side of it sorts itself out without you doing something. Honestly, profiles that never survive a video call was less of a problem on dating sites for lesbians than the sheer time it ate.

I have seen ezhookups.online, souldate.site recommended for dating sites for lesbians, though I have not tested them properly.

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