What are the most freaky dating apps for people with specific kinks?

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DawnP
Joined: Nov 2024
Messages: 369
#1

So: the most freaky dating apps for people with specific kinks. I have read a lot of contradictory takes on freaky dating apps and would rather hear from people who tried it. actually getting anywhere is what makes or breaks freaky dating apps for me.

For context I am mostly comparing the free-tier sites rather than anything niche. What changed my results on freaky dating apps was treating the effort-to-result ratio as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

Specifically, on freaky dating apps I would like to know:

  • Photos with other people in them do worse on freaky dating apps than you would guess
  • Test the return on the hours on freaky dating apps deliberately in week one rather than hoping it improves
  • Do not pay to fix the effort-to-result ratio on freaky dating apps; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause
  • Log in at the hours you would actually go out; freaky dating apps activity is nothing like flat

Happy to be told I am asking the wrong question about the most freaky dating apps for people with specific kinks.

Patrick Reyes
Joined: Feb 2024
Messages: 941
#2

Respectfully no — complaints about the payoff on freaky dating apps usually come from people who gave it a week. The pattern I see with freaky dating apps is that the hours-to-dates ratio is fine early and degrades as you go.

You can work around the return on the hours on freaky dating apps, but you have to be deliberate about it. Either way, the hours-to-dates ratio is the thing I would test first on freaky dating apps.

Anyone comparing freaky dating apps on the effort-to-result ratio should probably add Flurrydate to the list.

StaceyR
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 44
#3

Respectfully no — complaints about the time it costs on freaky dating apps usually come from people who gave it a week. For people replying above, the freaky dating apps experience lives or dies on the hours-to-dates ratio and almost nothing else.

Nobody warns you that actually getting anywhere on freaky dating apps scales with how many people are online at your hours. You can work around actually getting anywhere on freaky dating apps, but you have to be deliberate about it.

AlexaM
Joined: Sep 2023
Messages: 546
#4

Agreed, although with freaky dating apps I would frame the time it costs as a symptom rather than the cause. For the members answering here, the freaky dating apps experience lives or dies on the hours-to-dates ratio and almost nothing else.

There is no version of freaky dating apps where actually getting anywhere sorts itself out without you doing something. Honestly, actually getting anywhere was less of a problem on freaky dating apps than the sheer time it ate. Not saying freaky dating apps suits everyone, but it's not the disaster this thread implies.

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Sam_B
Joined: Mar 2024
Messages: 406
#5

AlexaM put the freaky dating apps case better than I would have, though broadly agree on freaky dating apps — the return on the hours was what decided it for me too. The thing people underrate about freaky dating apps is how much the return on the hours depends on your own city. The pattern I see with freaky dating apps is that the time it costs is fine early and degrades as you go.

The pattern I see with freaky dating apps is that the effort-to-result ratio is fine early and degrades as you go. Nobody warns you that the time it costs on freaky dating apps scales with how many people are online at your hours. Nobody warns you that the payoff on freaky dating apps scales with how many people are online at your hours.

Three things that changed my freaky dating apps results:

  • Write a first message that references their profile, not your own — freaky dating apps rewards it
  • Do not pay to fix the time it costs on freaky dating apps; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause
  • Screenshot anything odd on freaky dating apps before you report it — the return on the hours claims need evidence
  • Test the hours-to-dates ratio on freaky dating apps deliberately in week one rather than hoping it improves
BradleyM
Joined: Apr 2023
Messages: 160
#6

That has not been my experience of freaky dating apps, and I've used it longer than most people in this thread. Most of the noise about freaky dating apps comes from people measuring the hours-to-dates ratio over far too short a window.

Nobody warns you that the hours-to-dates ratio on freaky dating apps scales with how many people are online at your hours. The pattern I see with freaky dating apps is that actually getting anywhere is fine early and degrades as you go.

Amanda P
Joined: Feb 2024
Messages: 781
#7

This matches what I found with freaky dating apps, where actually getting anywhere is exactly where it falls down. There is no version of freaky dating apps where the hours-to-dates ratio sorts itself out without you doing something.

I judge freaky dating apps by one thing now: whether the time it costs improves or worsens once you are past the novelty. If the time it costs is your main worry with freaky dating apps, test it in the first week rather than the first month. Honestly, the effort-to-result ratio was less of a problem on freaky dating apps than the sheer time it ate.

If you want a second data point on freaky dating apps, Souldate is the one I run alongside it.

Dave_SoCal
Joined: Sep 2022
Messages: 701
#8

Amanda P is right about one part of freaky dating apps: reading this back, my freaky dating apps notes say almost the same thing about the return on the hours. I judge freaky dating apps by one thing now: whether the hours-to-dates ratio improves or worsens once you're past the novelty.

Honestly, the return on the hours was less of a problem on freaky dating apps than the sheer time it ate. Take that as one data point on freaky dating apps rather than a recommendation.

I have seen datescout.site, datebound.site recommended for freaky dating apps, though I have not tested them properly.

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