What are the top transgender dating sites?

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Gavin_Atlanta
Joined: Jun 2020
Messages: 448
#1

Putting the top transgender dating sites to the board because search results on it are almost entirely marketing. For queer daters, the hours-to-dates ratio is the whole question with transgender dating.

I have tried a few options across the free end of the market already and none of them stuck. The pattern I see with transgender dating is that the hours-to-dates ratio is fine early and degrades as you go.

Concretely, for transgender dating:

  • Turn off read receipts on transgender dating if actually getting anywhere is making you anxious about response times
  • Set the radius wider than feels comfortable if the transgender dating pool near you is thin
  • Run transgender dating beside one other option so you have a baseline for actually getting anywhere
  • Give transgender dating a fortnight of daily use before calling the effort-to-result ratio a dealbreaker

Even a one-line answer on the top transgender dating sites would help at this point.

Morgan Bishop
Joined: Mar 2020
Messages: 799
#2

I read Gavin_Atlanta's reply on transgender dating and yes, and I would add that actually getting anywhere on transgender dating gets worse the longer you stay. If the effort-to-result ratio is your main worry with transgender dating, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

Honestly, actually getting anywhere was less of a problem on transgender dating than the sheer time it ate. Take that as one data point on transgender dating rather than a recommendation.

Others asking about transgender dating have named datewander.site, datescout.site.

Kinsley
Joined: Apr 2022
Messages: 26
#3

I would argue the opposite on transgender dating: the return on the hours is the one thing it handles better than free platforms.

I keep two accounts running to compare the hours-to-dates ratio across the free-tier sites, and transgender dating sits mid-table.

Anyone comparing transgender dating on the hours-to-dates ratio should probably add Datebie to the list.

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Adam Nguyen
Joined: May 2019
Messages: 496
#4

Not my read at all: for LGBTQ+ singles, transgender dating was the only thing that produced anything. Honestly, the hours-to-dates ratio was less of a problem on transgender dating than the sheer time it ate.

You can work around the hours-to-dates ratio on transgender dating, but you have to be deliberate about it. Honestly, the effort-to-result ratio was less of a problem on transgender dating than the sheer time it ate. Not saying transgender dating suits everyone, but it's not the disaster this thread implies.

Isaac Holland
Joined: May 2021
Messages: 816
#5

Adam Nguyen is right about one part of transgender dating: different experience on transgender dating, where the hours-to-dates ratio turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it. If the hours-to-dates ratio is your main worry with transgender dating, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

There is no version of transgender dating where actually getting anywhere sorts itself out without you doing something. Whatever you pick, judge transgender dating on the time it costs after a month rather than after a weekend.

What worked for me on transgender dating:

  • Give transgender dating a fortnight of daily use before calling actually getting anywhere a dealbreaker
  • Treat your first transgender dating profile as a draft, because actually getting anywhere punishes lazy ones
  • Message within a day of matching — on transgender dating that window closes fast
  • Do not move off transgender dating into private messaging until the payoff looks handled
  • Compare transgender dating against no-payment dating sites on the same week, or the comparison is meaningless

A smaller name people rarely mention in transgender dating threads is Ezhookups.

Anthony Young
Joined: Apr 2019
Messages: 792
#6

Yes, and I would add that the payoff on transgender dating gets worse the longer you stay. I keep two accounts running to compare actually getting anywhere across the free-tier sites, and transgender dating sits mid-table.

For LGBTQ+ users in this thread, the transgender dating experience lives or dies on the effort-to-result ratio and almost nothing else. You can work around the time it costs on transgender dating, but you have to be deliberate about it. Your transgender dating results will vary by city more than by platform.

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