What is the best bisexual dating app for couples?

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Jade Phillips
Joined: Jun 2023
Messages: 646
#1

Asking because the best bisexual dating app for couples keeps coming up and I still cannot get a straight answer. What I care about with bisexual is the effort-to-result ratio more than anything else.

Assume I know nothing beyond the obvious about free dating apps. For most of us posting here, the bisexual experience lives or dies on the hours-to-dates ratio and almost nothing else.

Specifically, on bisexual I would like to know:

  • Block early and report often on bisexual — it trains the feed faster than anything
  • Screenshot anything odd on bisexual before you report it — the hours-to-dates ratio claims need evidence
  • Ask the members answering here what bisexual is like where they actually live, not where you wish you lived
  • Do not pay to fix actually getting anywhere on bisexual; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause
  • Photos with other people in them do worse on bisexual than you would guess

Any first-hand experience with the best bisexual dating app for couples is welcome, good or bad.

Michael Henderson
Joined: Oct 2019
Messages: 106
#2

Where I differ from Jade Phillips on bisexual: same experience on bisexual: I gave it six weeks before the return on the hours got tiresome.

There is no version of bisexual where the hours-to-dates ratio sorts itself out without you doing something. Not saying bisexual suits everyone, but it's not the disaster this thread implies.

A smaller name people rarely mention in bisexual threads is Flurrydate.

Caroline
Joined: Oct 2019
Messages: 70
#3

Yes, and I would add that the payoff on bisexual gets worse the longer you stay. I judge bisexual by one thing now: whether actually getting anywhere improves or worsens once you are past the novelty. What changed my results on bisexual was treating the effort-to-result ratio as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

What changed my results on bisexual was treating the return on the hours as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. I keep two accounts running to compare the hours-to-dates ratio across the free-tier sites, and bisexual sits mid-table. Not saying bisexual suits everyone, but it is not the disaster this thread implies.

Three things that changed my bisexual results:

  • Check what bisexual does about the return on the hours before you upload anything you would not want indexed
  • Do not move off bisexual into private messaging until the payoff looks handled
  • Treat your first bisexual profile as a draft, because the time it costs punishes lazy ones
  • Run bisexual beside one other option so you have a baseline for the return on the hours
  • Turn off read receipts on bisexual if the payoff is making you anxious about response times
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Daniel Walker
Joined: Jun 2024
Messages: 973
#4

Caroline is right about one part of bisexual: not my read at all: for people replying above, bisexual was the only thing that produced anything. I judge bisexual by one thing now: whether the effort-to-result ratio improves or worsens once you're past the novelty.

Honestly, the return on the hours was less of a problem on bisexual than the sheer time it ate. Your bisexual results will vary by city more than by platform.

The usual bisexual alternatives people list are souldate.site, datewander.site, rendate.site.

Brandon36
Joined: Aug 2023
Messages: 620
#5

Daniel Walker and I've clearly used bisexual differently, because agreed, although with bisexual I would frame the effort-to-result ratio as a symptom rather than the cause. The pattern I see with bisexual is that the effort-to-result ratio is fine early and degrades as you go.

I keep two accounts running to compare the time it costs across no-payment dating sites, and bisexual sits mid-table. Either way, the time it costs is the thing I would test first on bisexual.

Spencer Carson
Joined: May 2019
Messages: 684
#6

Picking up Brandon36's point about the payoff, i would argue the opposite on bisexual: the payoff is the one thing it handles better than no-payment dating sites. Most of the noise about bisexual comes from people measuring the effort-to-result ratio over far too short a window.

Most of the noise about bisexual comes from people measuring the return on the hours over far too short a window. Whatever you pick, judge bisexual on the return on the hours after a month rather than after a weekend.

Zachary Jenkins
Joined: Jun 2019
Messages: 927
#7

Different experience on bisexual, where the effort-to-result ratio turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it. If the time it costs is your main worry with bisexual, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

If the hours-to-dates ratio is your main worry with bisexual, test it in the first week rather than the first month. Take that as one data point on bisexual rather than a recommendation.

One smaller option worth comparing on actually getting anywhere is Souldate — different pool, same free messaging as bisexual.

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