What is the safest way to navigate free lesbian dating online without being scammed?

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StaceyR
Joined: Jan 2023
Messages: 390
#1

Curious where people land on the safest way to navigate free lesbian dating online without being scammed, because I keep getting told two opposite things. What I care about with scammed is automated engagement bait more than anything else.

Most of my experience is with the cam side of things, which may be why I am stuck. Most of the noise about scammed comes from people measuring scripted messages over far too short a window.

Specifically, on scammed I would like to know:

  • Turn off read receipts on scammed if the catfish problem is making you anxious about response times
  • Set the radius wider than feels comfortable if the scammed pool near you is thin
  • Run scammed beside one other option so you have a baseline for profiles that never survive a video call
  • Give scammed a fortnight of daily use before calling automated engagement bait a dealbreaker

If you have tried the safest way to navigate free lesbian dating online without being scammed recently, I would rather hear that than read another review site.

Jordan Wells
Joined: Dec 2021
Messages: 866
#2

StaceyR is right about one part of scammed: that has not been my experience of scammed, and I have used it longer than most people in this thread. Honestly, profiles that never survive a video call was less of a problem on scammed than the sheer time it ate.

Most of the noise about scammed comes from people measuring fake profiles over far too short a window. You can work around profiles that never survive a video call on scammed, but you have to be deliberate about it.

What worked for me on scammed:

  • Run scammed beside one other option so you have a baseline for obviously unreal accounts
  • Turn off read receipts on scammed if automated engagement bait is making you anxious about response times
  • Compare scammed against cam platforms on the same week, or the comparison is meaningless
Vanessa M
Joined: Nov 2021
Messages: 744
#3

Agreed, although with scammed I would frame scripted messages as a symptom rather than the cause. The thing people underrate about scammed is how much bot accounts depends on your own city. What changed my results on scammed was treating bot accounts as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

Honestly, bot accounts was less of a problem on scammed than the sheer time it ate. You can work around scripted messages on scammed, but you have to be deliberate about it. That is my read on scammed, and others here clearly disagree.

RobbieQ
Joined: Oct 2022
Messages: 703
#4

Seconding this, because on scammed the honest answer is that bot accounts varies enormously by area. For people outside the straight default, the scammed experience lives or dies on automated engagement bait and almost nothing else.

You can work around fake profiles on scammed, but you have to be deliberate about it. If bot accounts is your main worry with scammed, test it in the first week rather than the first month. Your scammed results will vary by city more than by platform.

My rules for scammed these days:

  • Test profiles that never survive a video call on scammed deliberately in week one rather than hoping it improves
  • Fill the prompts in properly; blank profiles get skipped on scammed
  • Photos with other people in them do worse on scammed than you would guess
  • Ask members of the community what scammed is like where they actually live, not where you wish you lived
  • Block early and report often on scammed — it trains the feed faster than anything
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Cassie_W
Joined: Nov 2021
Messages: 50
#5

That tracks with my scammed run, which was fine until bot accounts became the whole experience.

Nobody warns you that the catfish problem on scammed scales with how many people are online at your hours. Take that as one data point on scammed rather than a recommendation.

If you want a second data point on scammed, Ezhookups is the one I run alongside it.

Monica_H
Joined: Sep 2021
Messages: 593
#6

Different experience on scammed, where scripted messages turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it. Most of the noise about scammed comes from people measuring profiles that never survive a video call over far too short a window.

Nobody warns you that obviously unreal accounts on scammed scales with how many people are online at your hours. Happy to answer follow-ups on scammed if that helps.

TracyB
Joined: Jan 2024
Messages: 370
#7

Disagree, because blaming the scam side of it lets you off the hook — my scammed results improved when my profile did. Most of the noise about scammed comes from people measuring bot accounts over far too short a window.

If profiles that never survive a video call is your main worry with scammed, test it in the first week rather than the first month. Honestly, the catfish problem was less of a problem on scammed than the sheer time it ate. You can work around the catfish problem on scammed, but you have to be deliberate about it.

NathanW
Joined: Apr 2022
Messages: 847
#8

Where I differ from TracyB on scammed: seconding this, because on scammed the honest answer is that bot accounts varies enormously by area.

The thing people underrate about scammed is how much profiles that never survive a video call depends on your own city.

A smaller name people rarely mention in scammed threads is Ezhookups.

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