Are there any bi curious dating sites that are safe for beginners?

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FeliciaM
Joined: Dec 2023
Messages: 506
#1

Asking because any bi curious dating sites that are safe for beginners keeps coming up and I still cannot get a straight answer. What I care about with curious dating sites is block reliability more than anything else.

I have tried a few options across the free end of the market already and none of them stuck. For LGBTQ+ singles, the curious dating sites experience lives or dies on response time on reports and almost nothing else.

The open questions I have on curious dating sites:

  • Do not move off curious dating sites into private messaging until removal speed for bad accounts looks handled
  • Compare curious dating sites against the free-tier sites on the same week, or the comparison is meaningless
  • Check what curious dating sites does about the moderation backlog before you upload anything you would not want indexed
  • Turn off read receipts on curious dating sites if removal speed for bad accounts is making you anxious about response times

Anyone with a recent any bi curious dating sites that are safe for beginners story, please jump in.

Kevin Nash
Joined: Nov 2023
Messages: 416
#2

Building on what FeliciaM said about curious dating sites, that has not been my experience of curious dating sites, and I have used it longer than most people in this thread. If response time on reports is your main worry with curious dating sites, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

Most of the noise about curious dating sites comes from people measuring block reliability over far too short a window. I judge curious dating sites by one thing now: whether report handling improves or worsens once you are past the novelty. Not saying curious dating sites suits everyone, but it is not the disaster this thread implies.

For contrast with curious dating sites I would look at Souldate; the free tier there behaves differently.

Jared Stone
Joined: Jun 2024
Messages: 553
#3

Picking up Kevin Nash's point about removal speed for bad accounts, not my read at all: for queer members, curious dating sites was the only thing that produced anything.

Honestly, block reliability was less of a problem on curious dating sites than the sheer time it ate. The thing people underrate about curious dating sites is how much block reliability depends on your own city.

Names that come up repeatedly in curious dating sites threads: flurrydate.online, turndate.site.

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Natalie_W
Joined: Jun 2021
Messages: 831
#4

This matches what I found with curious dating sites, where moderation is exactly where it falls down. What changed my results on curious dating sites was treating removal speed for bad accounts as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

There is no version of curious dating sites where response time on reports sorts itself out without you doing something. I keep two accounts running to compare response time on reports across the free end of the market, and curious dating sites sits mid-table. Your curious dating sites results will vary by city more than by platform.

If you want a second data point on curious dating sites, DatingFly is the one I run alongside it.

Jake_NYC
Joined: Sep 2021
Messages: 227
#5

Natalie_W is right about one part of curious dating sites: that feels too harsh on curious dating sites, given report handling is a problem across free platforms rather than specific to it. Nobody warns you that response time on reports on curious dating sites scales with how many people are online at your hours.

The pattern I see with curious dating sites is that the moderation backlog is fine early and degrades as you go. Honestly, response time on reports was less of a problem on curious dating sites than the sheer time it ate.

HannahG
Joined: Oct 2024
Messages: 1065
#6

Picking up Jake_NYC's point about removal speed for bad accounts, i will push back here, because curious dating sites worked fine for me and the moderation backlog was never the issue. I judge curious dating sites by one thing now: whether response time on reports improves or worsens once you're past the novelty.

Honestly, the moderation backlog was less of a problem on curious dating sites than the sheer time it ate. The pattern I see with curious dating sites is that report handling is fine early and degrades as you go.

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