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Jake_NYC — FlameDate Community Profile

Community member Jake_NYC signed up in Aug 2021 and posts mainly on the free dating and app-comparison side. Most of what Jake_NYC posts is first-hand: what happened, over what period, in which city.

Where Jake_NYC posts

Between 19 Aug 2025 and 24 Jul 2026, Jake_NYC contributed to the threads listed below. The busiest board for Jake_NYC is Free Dating & Apps, which is where most of the 231 threads below sit.

Free Dating & Apps
107 threads from Jake_NYC
Niche Communities
45 threads from Jake_NYC
Cams & Video Chat
26 threads from Jake_NYC
Adult & Casual
15 threads from Jake_NYC
Conversation & Chat
14 threads from Jake_NYC
Relationships & Serious Dating
11 threads from Jake_NYC
Dating Apps & Reviews
7 threads from Jake_NYC
Local Dating
6 threads from Jake_NYC

How to read Jake_NYC’s posts

FlameDate does not amend member posts, so what Jake_NYC wrote is what Jake_NYC wrote, disagreements included. If Jake_NYC recommends against something we link to, that reply stays up unchanged.

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What Jake_NYC tends to write about

The recurring theme in posts by Jake_NYC is local density — the idea that your city decides your results more than your platform does. It shows up most clearly when Jake_NYC is answering somebody who has given a platform two days and declared it dead.

The list below is every discussion Jake_NYC has posted in, newest activity first, so you can see how the view developed. The dates against each thread show when Jake_NYC last contributed, not when the thread was created.

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