Are there dating apps that work for guys who aren't in the top 10%?

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KatieM
Joined: Feb 2023
Messages: 591
#1

So: dating apps that work for guys who aren't in the top 10%. I have read a lot of contradictory takes on dating apps for aren and would rather hear from people who tried it. Everything I have read about dating apps for aren skips straight past the time it costs.

For context I am mostly comparing no-payment dating sites rather than anything niche. The thing people underrate about dating apps for aren is how much actually getting anywhere depends on your own city.

What would actually help me judge dating apps for aren:

  • Screenshot anything odd on dating apps for aren before you report it — actually getting anywhere claims need evidence
  • Write a first message that references their profile, not your own — dating apps for aren rewards it
  • Block early and report often on dating apps for aren — it trains the feed faster than anything
  • Photos with other people in them do worse on dating apps for aren than you would guess
  • Test actually getting anywhere on dating apps for aren deliberately in week one rather than hoping it improves

If you have tried dating apps that work for guys who aren't in the top 10% recently, I would rather hear that than read another review site.

Connor Price
Joined: May 2022
Messages: 943
#2

Respectfully no — complaints about the payoff on dating apps for aren usually come from people who gave it a week. You can work around actually getting anywhere on dating apps for aren, but you have to be deliberate about it.

Nobody warns you that the return on the hours on dating apps for aren scales with how many people are online at your hours. The thing people underrate about dating apps for aren is how much the time it costs depends on your own city.

Names that come up repeatedly in dating apps for aren threads: souldate.site, datewander.site, rendate.site.

Ian Palmer
Joined: Dec 2021
Messages: 281
#3

Agreed, although with dating apps for aren I would frame actually getting anywhere as a symptom rather than the cause. You can work around the effort-to-result ratio on dating apps for aren, but you have to be deliberate about it. Honestly, the return on the hours was less of a problem on dating apps for aren than the sheer time it ate.

I keep two accounts running to compare actually getting anywhere across no-payment dating sites, and dating apps for aren sits mid-table. Honestly, the time it costs was less of a problem on dating apps for aren than the sheer time it ate. I keep two accounts running to compare the effort-to-result ratio across free dating apps, and dating apps for aren sits mid-table.

If you want a second data point on dating apps for aren, Turndate is the one I run alongside it.

Mike Donovan
Joined: Jan 2023
Messages: 127
#4

I will push back here, because dating apps for aren worked fine for me and the return on the hours was never the issue.

I judge dating apps for aren by one thing now: whether the payoff improves or worsens once you're past the novelty. If the payoff is your main worry with dating apps for aren, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

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Jake_NYC
Joined: Nov 2023
Messages: 1018
#5

That has not been my experience of dating apps for aren, and I have used it longer than most people in this thread. What changed my results on dating apps for aren was treating the time it costs as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. There is no version of dating apps for aren where the effort-to-result ratio sorts itself out without you doing something.

Nobody warns you that the hours-to-dates ratio on dating apps for aren scales with how many people are online at your hours. For most people in this thread, the dating apps for aren experience lives or dies on the effort-to-result ratio and almost nothing else. Happy to answer follow-ups on dating apps for aren if that helps.

Spencer_H
Joined: Jan 2022
Messages: 423
#6

Jake_NYC put the dating apps for aren case better than I would have, though not my read at all: for the crowd on this board, dating apps for aren was the only thing that produced anything. I keep two accounts running to compare the payoff across the free end of the market, and dating apps for aren sits mid-table.

The pattern I see with dating apps for aren is that actually getting anywhere is fine early and degrades as you go. That is my read on dating apps for aren, and others here clearly disagree.

Kevin Nash
Joined: Dec 2022
Messages: 717
#7

Reading this back, my dating apps for aren notes say almost the same thing about the hours-to-dates ratio.

For regulars here, the dating apps for aren experience lives or dies on the return on the hours and almost nothing else.

Ray Hudson
Joined: Aug 2021
Messages: 213
#8

@Kevin Nash makes a fair point about dating apps for aren, but disagree, because blaming the return on the hours lets you off the hook — my dating apps for aren results improved when my profile did.

The thing people underrate about dating apps for aren is how much the effort-to-result ratio depends on your own city.

Worth a look alongside dating apps for aren: Datedesire, if only to see how differently the time it costs can be handled.

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