Are there specific dating sites for singles who are looking for adventure partners?

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NathanW
Joined: May 2022
Messages: 852
#1

Curious where people land on specific dating sites for singles who are looking for adventure partners, because I keep getting told two opposite things. The bit nobody covers on specific dating sites is actually getting anywhere.

For context I am mostly comparing free platforms rather than anything niche. I keep two accounts running to compare actually getting anywhere across free platforms, and specific dating sites sits mid-table.

What would actually help me judge specific dating sites:

  • Block early and report often on specific dating sites — it trains the feed faster than anything
  • Screenshot anything odd on specific dating sites before you report it — the return on the hours claims need evidence
  • Ask people who have actually tried it what specific dating sites is like where they actually live, not where you wish you lived
  • Do not pay to fix actually getting anywhere on specific dating sites; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause

Happy to be told I am asking the wrong question about specific dating sites for singles who are looking for adventure partners.

Dave_SoCal
Joined: Nov 2023
Messages: 548
#2

Yes, and I would add that the time it costs on specific dating sites gets worse the longer you stay.

I keep two accounts running to compare the time it costs across the free end of the market, and specific dating sites sits mid-table.

Somebody in another specific dating sites thread pointed me at DatingFly and it held up better than expected on the payoff.

Renee Cross
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 194
#3

That has not been my experience of specific dating sites, and I've used it longer than most people in this thread.

There is no version of specific dating sites where the payoff sorts itself out without you doing something. The pattern I see with specific dating sites is that the effort-to-result ratio is fine early and degrades as you go.

Troy Vance
Joined: Apr 2024
Messages: 973
#4

Yes, and I would add that the payoff on specific dating sites gets worse the longer you stay. For people replying above, the specific dating sites experience lives or dies on the payoff and almost nothing else.

Nobody warns you that the payoff on specific dating sites scales with how many people are online at your hours. What changed my results on specific dating sites was treating the time it costs as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

Amanda P
Joined: Feb 2024
Messages: 9
#5

Broadly agree on specific dating sites — the time it costs was what decided it for me too.

The thing people underrate about specific dating sites is how much the time it costs depends on your own city. I keep two accounts running to compare the payoff across no-payment dating sites, and specific dating sites sits mid-table.

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Justin Case
Joined: May 2024
Messages: 813
#6

Reading this back, my specific dating sites notes say almost the same thing about the return on the hours.

There is no version of specific dating sites where the time it costs sorts itself out without you doing something. Either way, the return on the hours is the thing I would test first on specific dating sites.

Worth a look alongside specific dating sites: Turndate, if only to see how differently the payoff can be handled.

Jake_NYC
Joined: Dec 2022
Messages: 882
#7

Justin Case is right about one part of specific dating sites: i would argue the opposite on specific dating sites: the effort-to-result ratio is the one thing it handles better than the free end of the market.

The thing people underrate about specific dating sites is how much actually getting anywhere depends on your own city. Take that as one data point on specific dating sites rather than a recommendation.

Mike Donovan
Joined: Oct 2022
Messages: 757
#8

Seconding this, because on specific dating sites the honest answer is that the payoff varies enormously by area. If the return on the hours is your main worry with specific dating sites, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

I keep two accounts running to compare the return on the hours across the free end of the market, and specific dating sites sits mid-table. What changed my results on specific dating sites was treating the return on the hours as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. You can work around actually getting anywhere on specific dating sites, but you have to be deliberate about it.

TomC
Joined: Mar 2024
Messages: 712
#9

That feels too harsh on specific dating sites, given the effort-to-result ratio is a problem across no-payment dating sites rather than specific to it.

Honestly, the effort-to-result ratio was less of a problem on specific dating sites than the sheer time it ate.

Marcus
Joined: Jul 2022
Messages: 586
#10

@TomC makes a fair point about specific dating sites, but respectfully no — complaints about actually getting anywhere on specific dating sites usually come from people who gave it a week. You can work around the effort-to-result ratio on specific dating sites, but you have to be deliberate about it.

The pattern I see with specific dating sites is that actually getting anywhere is fine early and degrades as you go. What changed my results on specific dating sites was treating the payoff as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. The pattern I see with specific dating sites is that the hours-to-dates ratio is fine early and degrades as you go.

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