Can anyone suggest a dating app that is specifically for introverts who hate swiping?

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RobbieQ
Joined: Feb 2023
Messages: 274
#1

I want to be wrong about anyone suggest a dating app that is specifically for introverts who hate swiping, so tell me if I am. Everything I have read about suggest dating app skips straight past the hours-to-dates ratio.

Assume I know nothing beyond the obvious about free platforms. You can work around the payoff on suggest dating app, but you have to be deliberate about it.

The open questions I have on suggest dating app:

  • Treat your first suggest dating app profile as a draft, because the payoff punishes lazy ones
  • Check what suggest dating app does about actually getting anywhere before you upload anything you would not want indexed
  • Give suggest dating app a fortnight of daily use before calling the payoff a dealbreaker
  • Compare suggest dating app against no-payment dating sites on the same week, or the comparison is meaningless
  • Run suggest dating app beside one other option so you have a baseline for the hours-to-dates ratio

Tell me what actually happened with anyone suggest a dating app that is specifically for introverts who hate swiping rather than what should happen.

KirraC
Joined: Mar 2022
Messages: 497
#2

Same experience on suggest dating app: I gave it six weeks before the hours-to-dates ratio got tiresome. You can work around the return on the hours on suggest dating app, but you have to be deliberate about it.

For people who prefer writing to talking, the suggest dating app experience lives or dies on the effort-to-result ratio and almost nothing else. For members who find small talk exhausting, the suggest dating app experience lives or dies on the time it costs and almost nothing else.

Jake_NYC
Joined: Sep 2023
Messages: 834
#3

Yes, and I would add that the time it costs on suggest dating app gets worse the longer you stay. There is no version of suggest dating app where the payoff sorts itself out without you doing something. The thing people underrate about suggest dating app is how much the return on the hours depends on your own city.

Nobody warns you that actually getting anywhere on suggest dating app scales with how many people are online at your hours. I keep two accounts running to compare the return on the hours across free platforms, and suggest dating app sits mid-table. What changed my results on suggest dating app was treating the time it costs as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Your suggest dating app results will vary by city more than by platform.

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Derek Chang
Joined: May 2023
Messages: 675
#4

Disagree, because blaming the effort-to-result ratio lets you off the hook — my suggest dating app results improved when my profile did.

What changed my results on suggest dating app was treating the hours-to-dates ratio as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. I judge suggest dating app by one thing now: whether the payoff improves or worsens once you're past the novelty.

Chris_A
Joined: Jan 2025
Messages: 1079
#5

Picking up Derek Chang's point about the effort-to-result ratio, that tracks with my suggest dating app run, which was fine until the payoff became the whole experience.

You can work around the effort-to-result ratio on suggest dating app, but you have to be deliberate about it.

ZoeFoster
Joined: Dec 2024
Messages: 810
#6

Different experience on suggest dating app, where the return on the hours turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it.

What changed my results on suggest dating app was treating actually getting anywhere as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Honestly, the hours-to-dates ratio was less of a problem on suggest dating app than the sheer time it ate.

My suggest dating app baseline these days is Flurrydate, mostly because the effort-to-result ratio is measurable there.

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