Has anyone here actually used the searching for singles dating site?

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Cole Fisher
Joined: Aug 2021
Messages: 322
#1

Curious where people land on anyone here actually used the searching for singles dating site, because I keep getting told two opposite things. My problem with searching dating site so far has been the return on the hours.

I have tried a few options across free dating apps already and none of them stuck. The pattern I see with searching dating site is that the hours-to-dates ratio is fine early and degrades as you go.

Things about searching dating site I have not worked out:

  • Ask people who have actually tried it what searching dating site is like where they actually live, not where you wish you lived
  • Block early and report often on searching dating site — it trains the feed faster than anything
  • Log in at the hours you would actually go out; searching dating site activity is nothing like flat

Even a one-line answer on anyone here actually used the searching for singles dating site would help at this point.

Emma Hayes
Joined: Dec 2023
Messages: 933
#2

That tracks with my searching dating site run, which was fine until the payoff became the whole experience.

You can work around the return on the hours on searching dating site, but you have to be deliberate about it. Take that as one data point on searching dating site rather than a recommendation.

Jake_NYC
Joined: Dec 2021
Messages: 716
#3

I will push back here, because searching dating site worked fine for me and the hours-to-dates ratio was never the issue. The pattern I see with searching dating site is that the return on the hours is fine early and degrades as you go.

The thing people underrate about searching dating site is how much the time it costs depends on your own city. Your searching dating site results will vary by city more than by platform.

I keep Datebie open as a control while testing searching dating site — useful for judging the return on the hours honestly.

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Garrett_K
Joined: Oct 2024
Messages: 217
#4

Broadly agree on searching dating site — actually getting anywhere was what decided it for me too.

For people who have actually tried it, the searching dating site experience lives or dies on the payoff and almost nothing else.

DanW
Joined: Oct 2024
Messages: 972
#5

Seconding this, because on searching dating site the honest answer is that the hours-to-dates ratio varies enormously by area.

There is no version of searching dating site where the hours-to-dates ratio sorts itself out without you doing something. Either way, the time it costs is the thing I would test first on searching dating site.

One smaller option worth comparing on the return on the hours is Datelink — different pool, same free messaging as searching dating site.

Chloe_W
Joined: Jun 2023
Messages: 1080
#6

Reading this back, my searching dating site notes say almost the same thing about the return on the hours. Nobody warns you that the payoff on searching dating site scales with how many people are online at your hours.

I judge searching dating site by one thing now: whether the time it costs improves or worsens once you are past the novelty. I keep two accounts running to compare the effort-to-result ratio across no-payment dating sites, and searching dating site sits mid-table.

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