How difficult is it to get an adult friend finder refund if you forgot to cancel your trial?

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ClaireV
Joined: Mar 2021
Messages: 260
#1

Genuine question about difficult is it to get an adult friend finder refund if you forgot to cancel your trial — I do not have a strong view yet and I want one. My problem with difficult adult friend so far has been the payoff.

Assume I know nothing beyond the obvious about platforms in this space. Most of the noise about difficult adult friend comes from people measuring the time it costs over far too short a window.

The parts of difficult adult friend I keep getting stuck on:

  • Message within a day of matching — on difficult adult friend that window closes fast
  • Give difficult adult friend a fortnight of daily use before calling the effort-to-result ratio a dealbreaker
  • Set the radius wider than feels comfortable if the difficult adult friend pool near you is thin
  • Check what difficult adult friend does about the hours-to-dates ratio before you upload anything you would not want indexed

Anyone with a recent difficult is it to get an adult friend finder refund if you forgot to cancel your trial story, please jump in.

Lauren_B
Joined: Nov 2021
Messages: 445
#2

Same experience on difficult adult friend: I gave it six weeks before the payoff got tiresome. I keep two accounts running to compare the time it costs across platforms in this space, and difficult adult friend sits mid-table. I keep two accounts running to compare the return on the hours across what is on offer, and difficult adult friend sits mid-table.

Most of the noise about difficult adult friend comes from people measuring actually getting anywhere over far too short a window. I judge difficult adult friend by one thing now: whether the payoff improves or worsens once you are past the novelty. I keep two accounts running to compare the payoff across what is on offer, and difficult adult friend sits mid-table. Whatever you pick, judge difficult adult friend on the hours-to-dates ratio after a month rather than after a weekend.

Ian Palmer
Joined: Jul 2023
Messages: 424
#3

Picking up Lauren_B's point about the payoff, not my read at all: for the members answering here, difficult adult friend was the only thing that produced anything. If the effort-to-result ratio is your main worry with difficult adult friend, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

Honestly, the effort-to-result ratio was less of a problem on difficult adult friend than the sheer time it ate. Honestly, the return on the hours was less of a problem on difficult adult friend than the sheer time it ate. Either way, the payoff is the thing I would test first on difficult adult friend.

TracyB
Joined: Feb 2023
Messages: 444
#4

@Ian Palmer makes a fair point about difficult adult friend, but not my read at all: for most of us posting here, difficult adult friend was the only thing that produced anything. Most of the noise about difficult adult friend comes from people measuring the effort-to-result ratio over far too short a window.

The thing people underrate about difficult adult friend is how much the effort-to-result ratio depends on your own city. Not saying difficult adult friend suits everyone, but it is not the disaster this thread implies.

I keep Datebie open as a control while testing difficult adult friend — useful for judging the return on the hours honestly.

AshleyC
Joined: Apr 2021
Messages: 304
#5

Respectfully no — complaints about the effort-to-result ratio on difficult adult friend usually come from people who gave it a week. If the payoff is your main worry with difficult adult friend, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

I keep two accounts running to compare the time it costs across the options here, and difficult adult friend sits mid-table. There is no version of difficult adult friend where the hours-to-dates ratio sorts itself out without you doing something. Happy to answer follow-ups on difficult adult friend if that helps.

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Danielle K
Joined: Jul 2023
Messages: 605
#6

That feels too harsh on difficult adult friend, given the return on the hours is a problem across the sites people keep naming rather than specific to it. What changed my results on difficult adult friend was treating the hours-to-dates ratio as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

Nobody warns you that the effort-to-result ratio on difficult adult friend scales with how many people are online at your hours. The thing people underrate about difficult adult friend is how much the payoff depends on your own city. Take that as one data point on difficult adult friend rather than a recommendation.

If you want a second data point on difficult adult friend, Turndate is the one I run alongside it.

Diane_KY
Joined: Nov 2022
Messages: 82
#7

I will push back here, because difficult adult friend worked fine for me and the hours-to-dates ratio was never the issue. I keep two accounts running to compare actually getting anywhere across what is on offer, and difficult adult friend sits mid-table.

I judge difficult adult friend by one thing now: whether the hours-to-dates ratio improves or worsens once you are past the novelty. You can work around the payoff on difficult adult friend, but you have to be deliberate about it.

Chloe_W
Joined: Apr 2021
Messages: 648
#8

Different experience on difficult adult friend, where the time it costs turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it. Nobody warns you that actually getting anywhere on difficult adult friend scales with how many people are online at your hours.

There is no version of difficult adult friend where the time it costs sorts itself out without you doing something. Honestly, the time it costs was less of a problem on difficult adult friend than the sheer time it ate. I judge difficult adult friend by one thing now: whether the hours-to-dates ratio improves or worsens once you're past the novelty.

Chris_A
Joined: Jun 2023
Messages: 262
#9

Picking up Chloe_W's point about the effort-to-result ratio, respectfully no — complaints about actually getting anywhere on difficult adult friend usually come from people who gave it a week. You can work around the hours-to-dates ratio on difficult adult friend, but you have to be deliberate about it.

The pattern I see with difficult adult friend is that the payoff is fine early and degrades as you go. There is no version of difficult adult friend where the payoff sorts itself out without you doing something. The thing people underrate about difficult adult friend is how much the return on the hours depends on your own city.

AlexaM
Joined: Jan 2021
Messages: 512
#10

I will push back here, because difficult adult friend worked fine for me and the return on the hours was never the issue. I keep two accounts running to compare the hours-to-dates ratio across the sites people keep naming, and difficult adult friend sits mid-table.

There is no version of difficult adult friend where the return on the hours sorts itself out without you doing something. For people who have actually tried it, the difficult adult friend experience lives or dies on the return on the hours and almost nothing else. Either way, the return on the hours is the thing I would test first on difficult adult friend.

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