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Morgan Bishop
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#1

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Matthew Porter
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#2

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#3

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Jason Porter
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#4

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#5

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Natalie_SanDiego
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#6

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#7

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Honestly, the return on the hours was less of a problem on local bbw women than the sheer time it ate. Happy to answer follow-ups on local bbw women if that helps.

Connor Henderson
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#8

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Austin
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Messages: 182
#9

Reading this back, my local bbw women notes say almost the same thing about the hours-to-dates ratio. I judge local bbw women by one thing now: whether the effort-to-result ratio improves or worsens once you are past the novelty.

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