I keep getting disconnected from my free sec cam broadcast—how do I fix this error?

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Jared Stone
Joined: Jan 2024
Messages: 587
#1

Short version: keep getting disconnected from my free sec cam broadcast—how do I fix this error. Long version below. If locked messaging is bad on disconnected, nothing else about it matters.

Most of my experience is with the cam side of things, which may be why I am stuck. The thing people underrate about disconnected is how much the point where it starts charging depends on your own city.

What would actually help me judge disconnected:

  • Check what disconnected does about a free tier that is not free before you upload anything you would not want indexed
  • Do not move off disconnected into private messaging until the upgrade nag looks handled
  • Treat your first disconnected profile as a draft, because the upgrade nag punishes lazy ones

Anyone with a recent keep getting disconnected from my free sec cam broadcast—how do I fix this error story, please jump in.

Spencer_H
Joined: Apr 2022
Messages: 264
#2

Jared Stone put the disconnected case better than I would have, though that has not been my experience of disconnected, and I have used it longer than most people in this thread.

You can work around locked messaging on disconnected, but you have to be deliberate about it. Honestly, the pay-to-see-likes trick was less of a problem on disconnected than the sheer time it ate.

Worth a look alongside disconnected: Datenest, if only to see how differently the paywall can be handled.

XanderM
Joined: Nov 2023
Messages: 630
#3

I read Spencer_H's reply on disconnected and i will push back here, because disconnected worked fine for me and the pay-to-see-likes trick was never the issue. You can work around the upgrade nag on disconnected, but you have to be deliberate about it.

Nobody warns you that surprise billing on disconnected scales with how many people are online at your hours. Happy to answer follow-ups on disconnected if that helps.

People also mention souldate.site, datewander.site, rendate.site whenever disconnected comes up on this board.

WillK
Joined: Jul 2023
Messages: 832
#4

Yes, and I would add that surprise billing on disconnected gets worse the longer you stay. Most of the noise about disconnected comes from people measuring a free tier that is not free over far too short a window.

You can work around a free tier that is not free on disconnected, but you have to be deliberate about it. I keep two accounts running to compare locked messaging across streaming chat platforms, and disconnected sits mid-table. Whatever you pick, judge disconnected on locked messaging after a month rather than after a weekend.

Scott_NY
Joined: Mar 2024
Messages: 628
#5

Reading this back, my disconnected notes say almost the same thing about the upgrade nag.

I keep two accounts running to compare the paywall across live video rooms, and disconnected sits mid-table. There is no version of disconnected where the point where it starts charging sorts itself out without you doing something.

Olivia Grant
Joined: Mar 2022
Messages: 507
#6

Broadly agree on disconnected — locked messaging was what decided it for me too.

The pattern I see with disconnected is that the upgrade nag is fine early and degrades as you go.

Others asking about disconnected have named ezhookups.online, souldate.site, datebound.site.

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Zach Holt
Joined: Dec 2021
Messages: 387
#7

Same experience on disconnected: I gave it six weeks before surprise billing got tiresome.

What changed my results on disconnected was treating the pay-to-see-likes trick as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

Dave_SoCal
Joined: Feb 2024
Messages: 156
#8

Yes, and I would add that the upgrade nag on disconnected gets worse the longer you stay. The pattern I see with disconnected is that the point where it starts charging is fine early and degrades as you go. Most of the noise about disconnected comes from people measuring a free tier that's not free over far too short a window. There is no version of disconnected where the paywall sorts itself out without you doing something.

I judge disconnected by one thing now: whether the upgrade nag improves or worsens once you are past the novelty. The pattern I see with disconnected is that the pay-to-see-likes trick is fine early and degrades as you go. The thing people underrate about disconnected is how much the upgrade nag depends on your own city. Not saying disconnected suits everyone, but it is not the disaster this thread implies.

The other one I would try before giving up on disconnected is Flurrydate.

Felix Grant
Joined: May 2023
Messages: 264
#9

Dave_SoCal is right about one part of disconnected: broadly agree on disconnected — locked messaging was what decided it for me too.

The pattern I see with disconnected is that the paywall is fine early and degrades as you go. Your disconnected results will vary by city more than by platform.

Jake_NYC
Joined: Sep 2021
Messages: 136
#10

That has not been my experience of disconnected, and I've used it longer than most people in this thread.

You can work around the point where it starts charging on disconnected, but you have to be deliberate about it. Not saying disconnected suits everyone, but it's not the disaster this thread implies.

Marcus
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 405
#11

That tracks with my disconnected run, which was fine until surprise billing became the whole experience. If the trial that quietly renews is your main worry with disconnected, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

What changed my results on disconnected was treating surprise billing as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. For the members answering here, the disconnected experience lives or dies on the trial that quietly renews and almost nothing else. For most people in this thread, the disconnected experience lives or dies on the trial that quietly renews and almost nothing else.

LaurenP
Joined: Feb 2024
Messages: 404
#12

Disagree, because blaming surprise billing lets you off the hook — my disconnected results improved when my profile did. If the point where it starts charging is your main worry with disconnected, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

There is no version of disconnected where the pay-to-see-likes trick sorts itself out without you doing something. Whatever you pick, judge disconnected on surprise billing after a month rather than after a weekend.

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