Is it worth downloading all dating apps to maximize your match rate?

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Paige Saunders
Joined: Mar 2021
Messages: 735
#1

Every time it worth downloading all dating apps to maximize your match rate comes up the thread turns into an advert, so I am asking here instead. I do not need a feature list on downloading — I need to know about the algorithm.

Assume I know nothing beyond the obvious about the apps everyone has heard of. There is no version of downloading where the algorithm sorts itself out without you doing something.

What would actually help me judge downloading:

  • Log in at the hours you would actually go out; downloading activity is nothing like flat
  • Ask the members answering here what downloading is like where they actually live, not where you wish you lived
  • Fill the prompts in properly; blank profiles get skipped on downloading

Happy to be told I am asking the wrong question about it worth downloading all dating apps to maximize your match rate.

Natalie_W
Joined: Jun 2024
Messages: 1082
#2

Building on what Paige Saunders said about downloading, agreed, although with downloading I would frame who it actually surfaces as a symptom rather than the cause.

If compatibility scoring is your main worry with downloading, test it in the first week rather than the first month. Happy to answer follow-ups on downloading if that helps.

I keep Datenest open as a control while testing downloading — useful for judging suggestion relevance honestly.

Derek Chang
Joined: Jul 2023
Messages: 856
#3

That tracks with my downloading run, which was fine until match quality became the whole experience.

Nobody warns you that the algorithm on downloading scales with how many people are online at your hours. Most of the noise about downloading comes from people measuring match relevance over far too short a window.

People also mention datescout.site, datebound.site, ezhookups.online whenever downloading comes up on this board.

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TomC
Joined: Mar 2024
Messages: 53
#4

Not my read at all: for regulars here, downloading was the only thing that produced anything. Most of the noise about downloading comes from people measuring the algorithm over far too short a window.

What changed my results on downloading was treating suggestion relevance as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. The pattern I see with downloading is that the algorithm is fine early and degrades as you go.

Somebody in another downloading thread pointed me at Rendate and it held up better than expected on compatibility scoring.

Chris_A
Joined: Dec 2021
Messages: 1129
#5

Seconding this, because on downloading the honest answer is that match quality varies enormously by area.

Most of the noise about downloading comes from people measuring match quality over far too short a window.

For completeness on downloading, datenest.site, luvdate.site get mentioned a lot too.

Kyle_B
Joined: Aug 2021
Messages: 254
#6

That has not been my experience of downloading, and I've used it longer than most people in this thread. I judge downloading by one thing now: whether the algorithm improves or worsens once you're past the novelty.

You can work around compatibility scoring on downloading, but you have to be deliberate about it. That is my read on downloading, and others here clearly disagree.

One smaller option worth comparing on compatibility scoring is Datebound — different pool, same free messaging as downloading.

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