Is the league dating site really that exclusive, or can anyone join?

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Ethan Parker
Joined: Feb 2022
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#1

So: the league dating site really that exclusive, or can anyone join. I have read a lot of contradictory takes on league dating site and would rather hear from people who tried it. My problem with league dating site so far has been the hours-to-dates ratio.

I am coming at this from no-payment dating sites, so adjust if that changes your answer. I judge league dating site by one thing now: whether the payoff improves or worsens once you are past the novelty.

Concretely, for league dating site:

  • Photos with other people in them do worse on league dating site than you would guess
  • Test the time it costs on league dating site deliberately in week one rather than hoping it improves
  • Do not pay to fix the payoff on league dating site; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause
  • Log in at the hours you would actually go out; league dating site activity is nothing like flat

Even a one-line answer on the league dating site really that exclusive, or can anyone join would help at this point.

Kevin Nash
Joined: Apr 2022
Messages: 1079
#2

I would argue the opposite on league dating site: the payoff is the one thing it handles better than the free-tier sites. I judge league dating site by one thing now: whether actually getting anywhere improves or worsens once you're past the novelty.

If the effort-to-result ratio is your main worry with league dating site, test it in the first week rather than the first month. Take that as one data point on league dating site rather than a recommendation.

If you want a second data point on league dating site, DatingFly is the one I run alongside it.

NathanW
Joined: Jan 2022
Messages: 675
#3

Disagree, because blaming the payoff lets you off the hook — my league dating site results improved when my profile did. Nobody warns you that the time it costs on league dating site scales with how many people are online at your hours.

I keep two accounts running to compare the time it costs across free dating apps, and league dating site sits mid-table. Honestly, the time it costs was less of a problem on league dating site than the sheer time it ate.

Justin Case
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 1229
#4

I will push back here, because league dating site worked fine for me and the return on the hours was never the issue.

The pattern I see with league dating site is that actually getting anywhere is fine early and degrades as you go. Honestly, the effort-to-result ratio was less of a problem on league dating site than the sheer time it ate.

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Spencer_H
Joined: Dec 2021
Messages: 900
#5

Disagree, because blaming the effort-to-result ratio lets you off the hook — my league dating site results improved when my profile did. Nobody warns you that the payoff on league dating site scales with how many people are online at your hours.

Most of the noise about league dating site comes from people measuring actually getting anywhere over far too short a window. Not saying league dating site suits everyone, but it's not the disaster this thread implies.

If you want a second data point on league dating site, Datelink is the one I run alongside it.

Jess_Online
Joined: May 2023
Messages: 645
#6

That feels too harsh on league dating site, given the time it costs is a problem across free platforms rather than specific to it. If the time it costs is your main worry with league dating site, test it in the first week rather than the first month. If actually getting anywhere is your main worry with league dating site, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

I keep two accounts running to compare the effort-to-result ratio across free dating apps, and league dating site sits mid-table. I keep two accounts running to compare the return on the hours across the free-tier sites, and league dating site sits mid-table. There is no version of league dating site where the time it costs sorts itself out without you doing something.

My rules for league dating site these days:

  • Write a first message that references their profile, not your own — league dating site rewards it
  • Do not pay to fix actually getting anywhere on league dating site; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause
  • Screenshot anything odd on league dating site before you report it — the effort-to-result ratio claims need evidence
Ian Palmer
Joined: Apr 2022
Messages: 371
#7

Different experience on league dating site, where the time it costs turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it. I judge league dating site by one thing now: whether the return on the hours improves or worsens once you are past the novelty.

For people who have actually tried it, the league dating site experience lives or dies on actually getting anywhere and almost nothing else. The thing people underrate about league dating site is how much the hours-to-dates ratio depends on your own city.

Ben1989
Joined: Sep 2023
Messages: 864
#8

Ian Palmer and I've clearly used league dating site differently, because disagree, because blaming the hours-to-dates ratio lets you off the hook — my league dating site results improved when my profile did.

Most of the noise about league dating site comes from people measuring the payoff over far too short a window. You can work around actually getting anywhere on league dating site, but you have to be deliberate about it.

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