Ben1989 — FlameDate Community Profile
Since Jan 2024, Ben1989 has replied in 262 community threads across 8 boards. Ben1989 tends to answer with specifics rather than recommendations, which is the register most of these boards run on.
Where Ben1989 posts
Between 14 Aug 2025 and 23 Jul 2026, Ben1989 contributed to the threads listed below. The busiest board for Ben1989 is Free Dating & Apps, which is where most of the 262 threads below sit.
- Free Dating & Apps
- 110 threads from Ben1989
- Niche Communities
- 51 threads from Ben1989
- Conversation & Chat
- 24 threads from Ben1989
- Adult & Casual
- 23 threads from Ben1989
- Cams & Video Chat
- 22 threads from Ben1989
- Relationships & Serious Dating
- 14 threads from Ben1989
- Local Dating
- 9 threads from Ben1989
- Dating Apps & Reviews
- 9 threads from Ben1989
How to read Ben1989’s posts
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Reports about Ben1989 or any member go to moderation with the thread URL and post number, not to the member. Being unpopular is not a rule breach, so posts from Ben1989 are not removed for going against the grain.
What Ben1989 tends to write about
Across the threads below, Ben1989 keeps returning to the gap between what a platform claims and what it does after a fortnight. It is a narrower focus than most members have, and it makes the replies from Ben1989 easier to act on.
If you are reading a thread Ben1989 has posted in, read the replies underneath as well — on these boards the disagreement is usually where the information is. Threads where Ben1989 posted only a single reply are included as well, because a single reply is often the useful one.
Joining the same discussions as Ben1989
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