Is there a local hookup facebook messenger group that actually works?

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Cole Fisher
Joined: Nov 2023
Messages: 112
#1

Trying to settle a local hookup facebook messenger group that actually works for myself and the reviews are useless. The bit nobody covers on local hookup facebook is the hours-to-dates ratio.

For context I am mostly comparing no-strings platforms rather than anything niche. There is no version of local hookup facebook where the hours-to-dates ratio sorts itself out without you doing something.

The parts of local hookup facebook I keep getting stuck on:

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Tell me what actually happened with a local hookup facebook messenger group that actually works rather than what should happen.

Brittany Lake
Joined: May 2022
Messages: 160
#2

Picking up Cole Fisher's point about the hours-to-dates ratio, i would argue the opposite on local hookup facebook: the hours-to-dates ratio is the one thing it handles better than hookup apps. Most of the noise about local hookup facebook comes from people measuring the time it costs over far too short a window. Most of the noise about local hookup facebook comes from people measuring the payoff over far too short a window.

There is no version of local hookup facebook where the return on the hours sorts itself out without you doing something. The thing people underrate about local hookup facebook is how much the hours-to-dates ratio depends on your own city. Happy to answer follow-ups on local hookup facebook if that helps.

NickT
Joined: Jul 2022
Messages: 522
#3

Picking up Brittany Lake's point about the time it costs, respectfully no — complaints about actually getting anywhere on local hookup facebook usually come from people who gave it a week.

For regulars here, the local hookup facebook experience lives or dies on the return on the hours and almost nothing else.

Renee Cross
Joined: Jun 2024
Messages: 646
#4

I will push back here, because local hookup facebook worked fine for me and the return on the hours was never the issue. For people who have actually tried it, the local hookup facebook experience lives or dies on the return on the hours and almost nothing else.

If the return on the hours is your main worry with local hookup facebook, test it in the first week rather than the first month. For the members answering here, the local hookup facebook experience lives or dies on the effort-to-result ratio and almost nothing else. Whatever you pick, judge local hookup facebook on the hours-to-dates ratio after a month rather than after a weekend.

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NinaB
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 885
#5

Disagree, because blaming the return on the hours lets you off the hook — my local hookup facebook results improved when my profile did. I judge local hookup facebook by one thing now: whether the time it costs improves or worsens once you are past the novelty.

The thing people underrate about local hookup facebook is how much the time it costs depends on your own city. I judge local hookup facebook by one thing now: whether the hours-to-dates ratio improves or worsens once you're past the novelty.

The short version for local hookup facebook:

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  • Check what local hookup facebook does about the return on the hours before you upload anything you would not want indexed
  • Give local hookup facebook a fortnight of daily use before calling actually getting anywhere a dealbreaker
  • Compare local hookup facebook against hookup apps on the same week, or the comparison is meaningless
  • Run local hookup facebook beside one other option so you have a baseline for actually getting anywhere
Matt Lewis
Joined: Nov 2023
Messages: 251
#6

@NinaB makes a fair point about local hookup facebook, but same experience on local hookup facebook: I gave it six weeks before the return on the hours got tiresome.

I keep two accounts running to compare the return on the hours across casual platforms, and local hookup facebook sits mid-table.

Chris_A
Joined: Apr 2022
Messages: 772
#7

Matt Lewis is right about one part of local hookup facebook: broadly agree on local hookup facebook — the hours-to-dates ratio was what decided it for me too. Most of the noise about local hookup facebook comes from people measuring the effort-to-result ratio over far too short a window.

Most of the noise about local hookup facebook comes from people measuring actually getting anywhere over far too short a window. For the crowd on this board, the local hookup facebook experience lives or dies on the effort-to-result ratio and almost nothing else.

Practical bits, if you are trying local hookup facebook:

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  • Compare local hookup facebook against casual-first sites on the same week, or the comparison is meaningless
  • Message within a day of matching — on local hookup facebook that window closes fast
  • Give local hookup facebook a fortnight of daily use before calling the time it costs a dealbreaker

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Alex Torres
Joined: Feb 2024
Messages: 712
#8

I read Chris_A's reply on local hookup facebook and reading this back, my local hookup facebook notes say almost the same thing about the effort-to-result ratio.

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