Is there a no strings attached dating app that is actually safe for women?

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Jared Stone
Joined: Aug 2023
Messages: 971
#1

Curious where people land on a no strings attached dating app that is actually safe for women, because I keep getting told two opposite things. block reliability is what makes or breaks strings dating app for me.

I am coming at this from the free-tier sites, so adjust if that changes your answer. There is no version of strings dating app where report handling sorts itself out without you doing something.

Specifically, on strings dating app I would like to know:

  • Ask people replying above what strings dating app is like where they actually live, not where you wish you lived
  • Block early and report often on strings dating app — it trains the feed faster than anything
  • Log in at the hours you would actually go out; strings dating app activity is nothing like flat
  • Write a first message that references their profile, not your own — strings dating app rewards it

Blunt answers on a no strings attached dating app that is actually safe for women preferred over polite ones.

NathanW
Joined: Mar 2021
Messages: 1072
#2

Same experience on strings dating app: I gave it six weeks before response time on reports got tiresome.

Most of the noise about strings dating app comes from people measuring moderation over far too short a window. Your strings dating app results will vary by city more than by platform.

I have seen datescout.site, datebound.site, ezhookups.online recommended for strings dating app, though I have not tested them properly.

Sarah Beth
Joined: Jan 2023
Messages: 550
#3

Where I differ from NathanW on strings dating app: respectfully no — complaints about the moderation backlog on strings dating app usually come from people who gave it a week. The pattern I see with strings dating app is that report handling is fine early and degrades as you go.

Most of the noise about strings dating app comes from people measuring report handling over far too short a window. Not saying strings dating app suits everyone, but it's not the disaster this thread implies.

A smaller name people rarely mention in strings dating app threads is Datewander.

Luke Foster
Joined: Feb 2022
Messages: 34
#4

That feels too harsh on strings dating app, given block reliability is a problem across free platforms rather than specific to it.

The thing people underrate about strings dating app is how much block reliability depends on your own city. That is my read on strings dating app, and others here clearly disagree.

The usual strings dating app alternatives people list are datebound.site, rendate.site, souldate.site.

Jake_NYC
Joined: Jul 2021
Messages: 1124
#5

Not my read at all: for most of us posting here, strings dating app was the only thing that produced anything.

I judge strings dating app by one thing now: whether removal speed for bad accounts improves or worsens once you're past the novelty.

CindyLou
Joined: Feb 2024
Messages: 122
#6

Broadly agree on strings dating app — the moderation backlog was what decided it for me too. You can work around moderation on strings dating app, but you have to be deliberate about it.

I keep two accounts running to compare the moderation backlog across free platforms, and strings dating app sits mid-table. The thing people underrate about strings dating app is how much the moderation backlog depends on your own city.

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SophieR
Joined: Jun 2022
Messages: 595
#7

CindyLou is right about one part of strings dating app: agreed, although with strings dating app I would frame the moderation backlog as a symptom rather than the cause. What changed my results on strings dating app was treating removal speed for bad accounts as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Most of the noise about strings dating app comes from people measuring removal speed for bad accounts over far too short a window.

Honestly, removal speed for bad accounts was less of a problem on strings dating app than the sheer time it ate. Nobody warns you that removal speed for bad accounts on strings dating app scales with how many people are online at your hours. If removal speed for bad accounts is your main worry with strings dating app, test it in the first week rather than the first month. Take that as one data point on strings dating app rather than a recommendation.

If you do try strings dating app, do this:

  • Turn off read receipts on strings dating app if moderation is making you anxious about response times
  • Set the radius wider than feels comfortable if the strings dating app pool near you is thin
  • Run strings dating app beside one other option so you have a baseline for the moderation backlog
  • Give strings dating app a fortnight of daily use before calling the moderation backlog a dealbreaker
Aaron Brooks
Joined: Feb 2021
Messages: 224
#8

Picking up SophieR's point about response time on reports, that feels too harsh on strings dating app, given removal speed for bad accounts is a problem across the free end of the market rather than specific to it. I keep two accounts running to compare block reliability across the free-tier sites, and strings dating app sits mid-table.

For regulars here, the strings dating app experience lives or dies on removal speed for bad accounts and almost nothing else. You can work around the moderation backlog on strings dating app, but you have to be deliberate about it. Happy to answer follow-ups on strings dating app if that helps.

A smaller name people rarely mention in strings dating app threads is DatingFly.

Ethan Parker
Joined: Aug 2022
Messages: 884
#9

That feels too harsh on strings dating app, given moderation is a problem across no-payment dating sites rather than specific to it. If response time on reports is your main worry with strings dating app, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

What changed my results on strings dating app was treating block reliability as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. There is no version of strings dating app where response time on reports sorts itself out without you doing something.

ClaireV
Joined: Jun 2022
Messages: 16
#10

Ethan Parker is right about one part of strings dating app: not my read at all: for people who have actually tried it, strings dating app was the only thing that produced anything.

The thing people underrate about strings dating app is how much report handling depends on your own city. If the moderation backlog is your main worry with strings dating app, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

Brooklyn92
Joined: Feb 2024
Messages: 213
#11

Disagree, because blaming block reliability lets you off the hook — my strings dating app results improved when my profile did.

Most of the noise about strings dating app comes from people measuring block reliability over far too short a window. Honestly, block reliability was less of a problem on strings dating app than the sheer time it ate.

TracyB
Joined: Aug 2023
Messages: 1007
#12

Picking up Brooklyn92's point about report handling, reading this back, my strings dating app notes say almost the same thing about report handling.

The pattern I see with strings dating app is that block reliability is fine early and degrades as you go. I keep two accounts running to compare removal speed for bad accounts across the free-tier sites, and strings dating app sits mid-table.

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