What are the best free bisexual dating sites for women seeking both men and women?

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StaceyR
Joined: Feb 2025
Messages: 200
#1

I have been going round in circles on the best free bisexual dating sites for women seeking both men and women and could use some real experience. For people who have actually tried it, scripted messages is the whole question with bisexual.

I have tried a few options across free dating apps already and none of them stuck. Honestly, fake profiles was less of a problem on bisexual than the sheer time it ate.

Where I need help with bisexual:

  • Do not move off bisexual into private messaging until the catfish problem looks handled
  • Compare bisexual against free platforms on the same week, or the comparison is meaningless
  • Check what bisexual does about automated engagement bait before you upload anything you would not want indexed
  • Turn off read receipts on bisexual if the catfish problem is making you anxious about response times

I will report back on the best free bisexual dating sites for women seeking both men and women once I have tried whatever gets recommended.

Ray Hudson
Joined: Nov 2021
Messages: 680
#2

This matches what I found with bisexual, where obviously unreal accounts is exactly where it falls down.

I judge bisexual by one thing now: whether the scam side of it improves or worsens once you're past the novelty.

AshleyC
Joined: Jul 2024
Messages: 813
#3

Reading this back, my bisexual notes say almost the same thing about scripted messages. Most of the noise about bisexual comes from people measuring profiles that never survive a video call over far too short a window. I judge bisexual by one thing now: whether obviously unreal accounts improves or worsens once you are past the novelty.

Honestly, scripted messages was less of a problem on bisexual than the sheer time it ate. I keep two accounts running to compare the scam side of it across free platforms, and bisexual sits mid-table. The pattern I see with bisexual is that scripted messages is fine early and degrades as you go. Your bisexual results will vary by city more than by platform.

Practical bits, if you are trying bisexual:

  • Run bisexual beside one other option so you have a baseline for obviously unreal accounts
  • Turn off read receipts on bisexual if bot accounts is making you anxious about response times
  • Compare bisexual against no-payment dating sites on the same week, or the comparison is meaningless

Worth a look alongside bisexual: Souldate, if only to see how differently profiles that never survive a video call can be handled.

Connor Price
Joined: Aug 2024
Messages: 853
#4

Building on what AshleyC said about bisexual, same experience on bisexual: I gave it six weeks before the catfish problem got tiresome.

Nobody warns you that the catfish problem on bisexual scales with how many people are online at your hours. There is no version of bisexual where fake profiles sorts itself out without you doing something.

Selena_W
Joined: Feb 2025
Messages: 1006
#5

That has not been my experience of bisexual, and I have used it longer than most people in this thread. Most of the noise about bisexual comes from people measuring fake profiles over far too short a window.

What changed my results on bisexual was treating bot accounts as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. The thing people underrate about bisexual is how much obviously unreal accounts depends on your own city. You can work around obviously unreal accounts on bisexual, but you have to be deliberate about it.

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Justin Case
Joined: Jun 2022
Messages: 514
#6

Yes, and I would add that scripted messages on bisexual gets worse the longer you stay. You can work around profiles that never survive a video call on bisexual, but you have to be deliberate about it.

There is no version of bisexual where the catfish problem sorts itself out without you doing something. I keep two accounts running to compare the catfish problem across free platforms, and bisexual sits mid-table. You can work around fake profiles on bisexual, but you have to be deliberate about it.

How I would approach bisexual from scratch:

  • Do not pay to fix the catfish problem on bisexual; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause
  • Photos with other people in them do worse on bisexual than you would guess
  • Write a first message that references their profile, not your own — bisexual rewards it
  • Fill the prompts in properly; blank profiles get skipped on bisexual

Worth a look alongside bisexual: Datebie, if only to see how differently bot accounts can be handled.

Sean Murphy
Joined: Jun 2024
Messages: 78
#7

Same experience on bisexual: I gave it six weeks before bot accounts got tiresome.

Most of the noise about bisexual comes from people measuring automated engagement bait over far too short a window.

Jess_Online
Joined: Jul 2023
Messages: 867
#8

@Sean Murphy makes a fair point about bisexual, but disagree, because blaming the scam side of it lets you off the hook — my bisexual results improved when my profile did. Nobody warns you that the scam side of it on bisexual scales with how many people are online at your hours.

The thing people underrate about bisexual is how much fake profiles depends on your own city. You can work around automated engagement bait on bisexual, but you have to be deliberate about it.

Madison Reed
Joined: May 2022
Messages: 614
#9

I would argue the opposite on bisexual: fake profiles is the one thing it handles better than the free-tier sites.

The pattern I see with bisexual is that profiles that never survive a video call is fine early and degrades as you go. I judge bisexual by one thing now: whether bot accounts improves or worsens once you're past the novelty.

Sarah Beth
Joined: Jan 2025
Messages: 877
#10

Agreed, although with bisexual I would frame fake profiles as a symptom rather than the cause. You can work around scripted messages on bisexual, but you have to be deliberate about it.

Honestly, automated engagement bait was less of a problem on bisexual than the sheer time it ate. Take that as one data point on bisexual rather than a recommendation.

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