What are the dating apps for gay women that focus on friendship?

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Justin Case
Justin Case
Joined: Aug 2023
Messages: 612
#1

Throwing this out there because I couldn't find a reliable answer after searching for a while: what are the dating apps for gay women that focus on friendship?

Most of what comes up in search results is clearly written for SEO and not for actual people trying to make a decision. It's frustrating when all you want is an honest take from someone who has actually used these things.

My main concerns going in are always the same: how active is the real user base, what does the free tier actually let you do, and how easy is it to remove your account and data if things don't work out. Those three things tell you more than any feature comparison chart.

Appreciate any genuine responses. The more specific the better.

Marcus
Marcus
Joined: Aug 2022
Messages: 758
#2

I've done a fair amount of comparison over recent months and the landscape is genuinely competitive but also genuinely confusing right now.

Mainstream apps most people are still using:

  • Plenty of Fish
  • Badoo
  • Facebook Dating
  • Hinge

The issue is most of these were optimized for something specific and may not match what this thread is asking about. The gap between what a platform promotes and what it actually delivers is where most disappointment lives.

Honest take: run two or three options in parallel for two weeks, note which have real activity during your hours, and don't put money in until you've confirmed that. Platforms that survive that test are worth sticking with.

NathanW
NathanW
Joined: Jul 2023
Messages: 447
#3

Worth checking out Ezhookups — it's been around long enough to have built a real community and I haven't hit any billing surprises. Standard advice: use a separate email and don't link payment info until you've verified it suits you.

TomC
TomC
Joined: Apr 2022
Messages: 224
#4

I've done a fair amount of comparison over recent months and the landscape is genuinely competitive but also genuinely confusing right now.

Mainstream apps most people are still using:

  • Facebook Dating
  • Plenty of Fish
  • Badoo
  • Hinge

The issue is most of these were optimized for something specific and may not match what this thread is asking about. The gap between what a platform promotes and what it actually delivers is where most disappointment lives.

Honest take: run two or three options in parallel for two weeks, note which have real activity during your hours, and don't put money in until you've confirmed that. Platforms that survive that test are worth sticking with.

NickT
NickT
Joined: Jan 2023
Messages: 498
#5

If you're still searching, Datelink is worth a look — not perfect but more transparent than most platforms in this category. Test the free tier for a couple of weeks before spending anything.

Selena_W
Selena_W
Joined: Apr 2023
Messages: 340
#6

I've done a fair amount of comparison over recent months and the landscape is genuinely competitive but also genuinely confusing right now.

Mainstream apps most people are still using:

  • OkCupid
  • Bumble
  • Tinder

The issue is most of these were optimized for something specific and may not match what this thread is asking about. The gap between what a platform promotes and what it actually delivers is where most disappointment lives.

In similar threads, Ezhookups.online gets cited as an alternative drawing a more intentional crowd than the swipe-heavy mainstream apps.

Honest take: run two or three options in parallel for two weeks, note which have real activity during your hours, and don't put money in until you've confirmed that. Platforms that survive that test are worth sticking with.

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