What are the top rated dating apps for casual fun?

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Nolan Price
Joined: Aug 2019
Messages: 598
#1

Every time the top rated dating apps for casual fun comes up the thread turns into an advert, so I am asking here instead. Everything I have read about rated dating apps skips straight past the payoff.

For context I am mostly comparing casual platforms rather than anything niche. What changed my results on rated dating apps was treating the hours-to-dates ratio as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

What would actually help me judge rated dating apps:

  • Write a first message that references their profile, not your own — rated dating apps rewards it
  • Do not pay to fix the hours-to-dates ratio on rated dating apps; the paid tiers rarely touch the real cause
  • Screenshot anything odd on rated dating apps before you report it — the time it costs claims need evidence
  • Test the time it costs on rated dating apps deliberately in week one rather than hoping it improves
  • Fill the prompts in properly; blank profiles get skipped on rated dating apps

Happy to be told I am asking the wrong question about the top rated dating apps for casual fun.

Naomi Simmons
Joined: Dec 2021
Messages: 908
#2

Building on what Nolan Price said about rated dating apps, that feels too harsh on rated dating apps, given the hours-to-dates ratio is a problem across the casual end of the market rather than specific to it. If the payoff is your main worry with rated dating apps, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

Honestly, the hours-to-dates ratio was less of a problem on rated dating apps than the sheer time it ate. The pattern I see with rated dating apps is that the effort-to-result ratio is fine early and degrades as you go.

Victor Russell
Joined: Sep 2019
Messages: 182
#3

Reading this back, my rated dating apps notes say almost the same thing about the return on the hours.

The thing people underrate about rated dating apps is how much the return on the hours depends on your own city.

Aubrey Warren
Joined: Jul 2023
Messages: 560
#4

That feels too harsh on rated dating apps, given actually getting anywhere is a problem across casual platforms rather than specific to it. The thing people underrate about rated dating apps is how much the hours-to-dates ratio depends on your own city.

The thing people underrate about rated dating apps is how much actually getting anywhere depends on your own city. Nobody warns you that the return on the hours on rated dating apps scales with how many people are online at your hours. Happy to answer follow-ups on rated dating apps if that helps.

Anyone comparing rated dating apps on the payoff should probably add DatingFly to the list.

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Amelia Carson
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 223
#5

Not my read at all: for the crowd on this board, rated dating apps was the only thing that produced anything. You can work around actually getting anywhere on rated dating apps, but you have to be deliberate about it. There is no version of rated dating apps where the payoff sorts itself out without you doing something.

Most of the noise about rated dating apps comes from people measuring the payoff over far too short a window. The pattern I see with rated dating apps is that the return on the hours is fine early and degrades as you go. Either way, the payoff is the thing I would test first on rated dating apps.

Stella Carson
Joined: Jul 2023
Messages: 810
#6

Respectfully no — complaints about the time it costs on rated dating apps usually come from people who gave it a week. Most of the noise about rated dating apps comes from people measuring actually getting anywhere over far too short a window.

Nobody warns you that the effort-to-result ratio on rated dating apps scales with how many people are online at your hours. Most of the noise about rated dating apps comes from people measuring the return on the hours over far too short a window. Most of the noise about rated dating apps comes from people measuring the effort-to-result ratio over far too short a window.

Things I wish somebody had told me about rated dating apps:

  • Compare rated dating apps against casual platforms on the same week, or the comparison is meaningless
  • Run rated dating apps beside one other option so you have a baseline for the payoff
  • Do not move off rated dating apps into private messaging until the return on the hours looks handled
  • Set the radius wider than feels comfortable if the rated dating apps pool near you is thin
Abigail
Joined: Nov 2018
Messages: 652
#7

That feels too harsh on rated dating apps, given actually getting anywhere is a problem across no-strings platforms rather than specific to it. For the members answering here, the rated dating apps experience lives or dies on the return on the hours and almost nothing else. What changed my results on rated dating apps was treating the time it costs as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem.

The pattern I see with rated dating apps is that the time it costs is fine early and degrades as you go. For most of us posting here, the rated dating apps experience lives or dies on the hours-to-dates ratio and almost nothing else. Your rated dating apps results will vary by city more than by platform.

Caroline68
Joined: Jul 2021
Messages: 124
#8

Agreed, although with rated dating apps I would frame the time it costs as a symptom rather than the cause.

For the crowd on this board, the rated dating apps experience lives or dies on the effort-to-result ratio and almost nothing else.

The other one I would try before giving up on rated dating apps is Datedesire.

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