Penelope — FlameDate Community Profile
Penelope joined FlameDate in Dec 2018 and has since taken part in 3 separate discussions. Penelope posts about what did not work as readily as about what did, which is more useful than it sounds.
Where Penelope posts
The account for Penelope shows activity running from 14 May 2026 through to 20 Jul 2026. The busiest board for Penelope is Adult & Casual, which is where most of the 3 threads below sit.
- Adult & Casual
- 2 threads from Penelope
- Free Dating & Apps
- 1 thread from Penelope
How to read Penelope’s posts
The replies from Penelope are unedited, so where Penelope contradicts one of our guides the guide does not win by default. We would rather publish Penelope disagreeing with us than run a board that reads like a press release.
If a post by Penelope breaches the community rules, report it and a moderator will look at it rather than at who wrote it. The distinction we hold to is that Penelope can be mistaken in public but cannot be cruel in public.
What Penelope tends to write about
Threads that attract Penelope usually involve a claim that can be tested in a week rather than argued about forever. That perspective is more useful in the smaller boards, where Penelope is often one of only a handful of people with first-hand experience.
Start with the most recent thread if you want the current view from Penelope, or the oldest if you want the argument in full. The board label beside each entry tells you which part of the community Penelope was in at the time.
Joining the same discussions as Penelope
Threads Penelope has posted in are open, so you can add to them rather than starting a duplicate. There is no separate forum subscription, so posting near Penelope costs exactly what reading does.
If a reply from Penelope breaks a rule, report it rather than arguing underneath it; arguing underneath it is slower and helps nobody. There is no members-only tier hiding the better replies from Penelope.
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