Is the site sexxhat just another affiliate trap, or does it have real users?

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Chris_A
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 212
#1

Putting the site sexxhat just another affiliate trap, or does it have real users to the board because search results on it are almost entirely marketing. genuine daily activity is what makes or breaks sexxhat for me.

Assume I know nothing beyond the obvious about the options here. Most of the noise about sexxhat comes from people measuring real activity levels over far too short a window.

Specifically, on sexxhat I would like to know:

  • Set the radius wider than feels comfortable if the sexxhat pool near you is thin
  • Message within a day of matching — on sexxhat that window closes fast
  • Turn off read receipts on sexxhat if local density is making you anxious about response times
  • Treat your first sexxhat profile as a draft, because the gap between claimed and real users punishes lazy ones

If you have tried the site sexxhat just another affiliate trap, or does it have real users recently, I would rather hear that than read another review site.

NinaB
Joined: Sep 2022
Messages: 174
#2

Where I differ from Chris_A on sexxhat: not my read at all: for most people in this thread, sexxhat was the only thing that produced anything. The pattern I see with sexxhat is that real activity levels is fine early and degrades as you go.

What changed my results on sexxhat was treating real activity levels as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Your sexxhat results will vary by city more than by platform.

XanderM
Joined: Sep 2023
Messages: 353
#3

NinaB put the sexxhat case better than I would have, though different experience on sexxhat, where genuine daily activity turned out to be manageable once I changed how I used it. For people replying above, the sexxhat experience lives or dies on real activity levels and almost nothing else.

The thing people underrate about sexxhat is how much local deadness depends on your own city. Happy to answer follow-ups on sexxhat if that helps.

I keep Datebie open as a control while testing sexxhat — useful for judging genuine daily activity honestly.

Ian Palmer
Joined: Jan 2023
Messages: 398
#4

Picking up XanderM's point about the gap between claimed and real users, that feels too harsh on sexxhat, given genuine daily activity is a problem across the options here rather than specific to it. For people who have actually tried it, the sexxhat experience lives or dies on local deadness and almost nothing else. Most of the noise about sexxhat comes from people measuring local density over far too short a window.

The thing people underrate about sexxhat is how much the count of accounts actually online depends on your own city. There is no version of sexxhat where genuine daily activity sorts itself out without you doing something. Nobody warns you that genuine daily activity on sexxhat scales with how many people are online at your hours.

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Vanessa M
Joined: Dec 2022
Messages: 90
#5

I read Ian Palmer's reply on sexxhat and reading this back, my sexxhat notes say almost the same thing about the count of accounts actually online.

Nobody warns you that local density on sexxhat scales with how many people are online at your hours. Either way, genuine daily activity is the thing I would test first on sexxhat.

Troy Vance
Joined: Aug 2022
Messages: 99
#6

I read Vanessa M's reply on sexxhat and that has not been my experience of sexxhat, and I have used it longer than most people in this thread. If genuine daily activity is your main worry with sexxhat, test it in the first week rather than the first month.

What changed my results on sexxhat was treating local density as a filtering problem rather than a platform problem. Most of the noise about sexxhat comes from people measuring the count of accounts actually online over far too short a window. Take that as one data point on sexxhat rather than a recommendation.

Anyone comparing sexxhat on genuine daily activity should probably add Datenest to the list.

Jake_NYC
Joined: Aug 2022
Messages: 159
#7

That has not been my experience of sexxhat, and I've used it longer than most people in this thread.

The thing people underrate about sexxhat is how much real activity levels depends on your own city.

Justin Case
Joined: Feb 2022
Messages: 537
#8

Where I differ from Jake_NYC on sexxhat: i would argue the opposite on sexxhat: real activity levels is the one thing it handles better than the sites people keep naming.

For regulars here, the sexxhat experience lives or dies on genuine daily activity and almost nothing else.

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